This women had just told me she made up these stories to test my faithfulness She said she had made love to 3 or 4 other guys and the 4th one might have made her pragnate. She made me believe that what she was saying is true. She then told me it was all a lie after I told her it was over. She use to work at an internet cafe and her boss told me sometimes after work she would leave with other guys. One time she left hand in hand with a guy and thought it was alright. She also made me wait online one time well she went to dinner with one of these guys. It has been a year and a half and all she did was test me. Now she is telling me I changed and it is really over this time. What are you opions? If you need more details let me know. I had found someone who would trust me and not continue to test me and don't know if I am making the right choice and need others opions of this women I speak of. Is she worth it ? All she dose is test me but her boss I know would never lie to me, sure thing..
2006-07-08 19:03:53 · 21 answers · asked by Less known 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This chic is too weird for a nice guy like you. She is playing you like a fiddle. Whether or not she is "testing" you is irrelevant. I suspect she is lying and playing you for a fool. No matter. A person who really cares for you won't talk to you like that in any circumstance.
Try to find a girl who is nice. There are plenty of them out there. And they all like intimacy.
2006-07-08 19:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has a serious problem with faithfulness. You need to find other company - someone who is in a position to consider you really the most important person in her life (even more than mom and dad) and make a permanent, exclusive commitment to you.
If a permanent relationship, in the way I have described, is not a possibility, then you need to keep your relationship platonic. This applies to anyone, not just this girl BTW
Indeed, it just doesn't make sense to take steps down the road to a relationship that will make permanent changes so that if you later break up, you'll be leaving a part of yourself with her and vice versa - unless you and the given person are absolutely sure that this is what you want (i.e. engaged to be married - at least).
Please think about it and take (or rather don't take :> ) appropriate action.
God bless you
2006-07-08 19:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so this woman tells you a bunch of lies about being unfaithful, then saysshe was just testing you and her boss confirms she would leave work with other men. Now you've changed so she needs to break up with you. And your question is should you stay with her or with the the new woman who does trust. GET A LIFE and move on.
2006-07-08 19:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's testing you like that, she's really teasing you. She'd like nothing better than to have you slobbering all over her and following her like a lost pup. Actually, with all you've put up with, you really are there. Get a grip on yourself and go with the other woman you trust, you'll find you're a happier person.
2006-07-08 19:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, well she is either A. a liar or B. someone who plays head games. Either way, she doesn't sound like a good girl to be with long term. To me, it sounds like choice A. You sound like a nice guy who has put up with too much from this woman. I say you end it.
2006-07-08 19:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The test thing simply means shes a liar!!!
Move on before she gives u an STD just to test u!!!
2006-07-08 19:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Testing you? Wake up son! She is lying to you! Quit acting like a punk and move on! This goofy b*tch has nothing to offer you!
Pick up whatever self-esteem you still have and get out of there!
2006-07-08 19:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by and,or,nand,nor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PEOPLE LIE if u loved her truly YOU WOULDNT GO AROUND BELIEVE OTHER PEOPLE.hes lying and shes right to test u.it seems like u believe what others say or what they talk of.u have a problem get over it.dont believe others.if u love her trust her and dont listen to others talking believe such gossip rumors its easy to spread such things about a girl.if u LOVE AND TRUST HER dont believe trust such things dont bother what anyone says
2006-07-08 19:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by dramy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her, shes not worth keeping if u guys can't trust each other becuz trust is very important in a relationship. u can do better. find a new girl who can hold a steady relationship
2006-07-08 19:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by azngirlzda1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose her NOW! If she says she is testing you will it ever stop. GO for the one that trusts you not the psycho who tests you.
2006-07-08 19:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by Virgo77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋