All he took was a set of outdoor chairs. He could have borrowed them if he had asked. Yet instead of asking, which might have required using the internet because I am overseas, he reportedly jimmied a window and broke in -- as far as I know, that's breaking and entering. His father was murdered two years ago, so I have been helping my stepson financially at the same time I have been attempting to rebuild my own life. It makes me sick that I can't trust this young man to whom I have given so much.
2006-07-08 18:47:40 · 6 answers · asked by expatturk 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, if you didn't want him to have a key, then you were uncomfortable with the idea of him having access to your home.
If he broke into your home while you were gone even just to borrow something, he should see what he did caused you alarm.
You should feel comfortable in your own home, especially after tragedy. Let him know he has crossed the line.
Calling the police is up to you. if you let it pass, he might do it again. Good luck, Hon.
2006-07-08 19:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should just because he is family should never make a difference.If you don't show him now he will never have respect for you stop trying so hard he knows better then to do something like that and he thinks you will not do anything because you are going to take his abuse.Just because your his step mother does not mean you have to be a push over.Call the police and let them know he may be mad at you but he will forgive you for it
2006-07-09 01:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by sophiababie03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, call the police and have them talk to him. They may not be able to prove it.....but at least he'll know that if it happens again, you'll press charges on him. In the meantime, if you have to leave again, then you may want to consider getting some time of intruder alarm for your house while you're away. Best of luck to you......
2006-07-09 18:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, thats a hard one............maybe have him read what you just wrote.............let him know how it made you feel. I wouldnt call the police just yet. If this happens again then maybe but for now try to talk to him
2006-07-09 02:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by ttazevert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should explain 2 him that he could have just asked and that this obviously bothers you.
2006-07-09 01:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by ♥aɳgel♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh... yeah.
2006-07-09 01:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by digital321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋