my bestfriend Jake asked me if I can help him get sarah's attention because Sarah is also my friend I said yes but it really hurts I love Jake what should I do?
2006-07-08 18:33:17 · 9 answers · asked by Samantha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be patient and in time he WILL see what he has been missing all along. Yes it will hurt but showing it prematurely will hurt even more. Give him all your attention but do not overdo it. Chin up, patience and hope for the best. You won't lose, You won't!
2006-07-08 18:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by gudrun077 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get Sarah's attention for him, you did promise. If Sarah likes Jake, then you should give it time, but tell Jake how you feel. If Jake doesn't care or wants to avoid you for the rest of his life, he isn't worth it, so don't hurt yourself, but the best of luck to you! Oh, and always think positively...
2006-07-09 01:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
help him get sarahs attention like you agreed, jake will see that you have character and that may appeal to him more than sarah does, at the very least, you will feel better about yourself. sometimes it's a better thing to be altruistic. it builds character. that's what attracts us to people , we like what they believe in. and we trust what reaction we can expect from them.
2006-07-09 01:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better tell him. If you don't you will suffer in silence. If you do you may be surprised.
Geesh! Why do so many people hide what they feel. What do you hope to gain by keeping you love a secret? Stop breaking your own heart and get with it and take the chance. I'm getting tired of saying it.
2006-07-09 01:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i can't really tell you what to do. try to find out if jake likes you too; he might be trying to get your attention in a wierd guy kind of way. good luck (:
2006-07-09 01:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you think you love him... Don't beat around the bush with matters of the heart....
2006-07-09 01:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by fusionh2wlh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get involved with this , it just a mess waiting the happen, if you love him tell him, other than that , leave it alone
2006-07-09 01:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by Giggles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. Move on with your life
2006-07-09 01:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u love him. Then you can find ur way.
2006-07-09 01:41:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋