I used to be the nice guy who would take the girls everywhere, give them massages, say all the rigt things, buy lots of stuff...but lately I've been treating my women like garbage and they love me...I can't even break up with them if I wanted to.....never be sweet to women!!
2006-07-08 18:30:55 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I only like being treated badly in bed. shhhh don't tell anybody.
2006-07-08 18:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by ~brigit~ 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
TESTIFY BROTHER! Jeez I've run into so many women who are with men who treat them like $hit. However your old nice guy seems a little over the top. Massages? Buy stuff? Maybe youre' smothering them. As far as purposley acting like a dic*head, why would you want to do that? How could you live with yourself? Its not a game we're playin.
I refuse to not be myself. I won't treat a woman bad. The best thing is to be a man, be yourself and some woman somewhere will be attracted.
2006-07-08 18:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by Pepe LePeu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA THERE BUDDY... ure getting the wrong idea... yea its true that women are more attracted to you if you are harder to get. but treating them like **** wont get the relationship anywhere. ull be stuck with a girl who is a peice of trash doesnt have self dignity and ull hate ureself for making the decision to be such a jacka$$. keep being a nice guy... eventually ull find the girl that wants that. and not the excitement and knowledge that ude dump her any minute if u really wanted to cuz u have the power over her in the relationship... find a girl that u can do sweet things for that does sweet things for you... its alot better than staying with a girl that u have complete control over just by being an angry jacka$$ isnt it?
2006-07-08 18:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by XitachiX 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All women do not like to be treated badly. You are attracting women with deep emotional issues if they let you treat them badly. Why have you decided to become a jerk? A person emotion is nothing to play with, and you risk getting yourself hurt, and I don't mean emotionally. You should try to be more mature, and then find a woman that is stable and strong. Then go from there. Other wise you will reap what you sow.
2006-07-08 18:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People in general are stupid. We all want what we can't have. So an untamed bad boy is a great challenge for a girl. Can she catch him? And can she change him? They don't see thay could have things alot better with a nice guy. Oh well. At least you can save some money by not playing the role of nice guy.
2006-07-08 18:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by JamJamJaroo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's the whole "Frog Prince" syndrome...some get a huge power trip if they can change a guy from being a total jerk into prince charming...heck, isn't that the kind of story our heads have been filled with since childhood...Beauty and the Beast, Sleeping Beauty, Cinderella
If you treat them nice from the get go...what's the challenge?
Of course it's a delusion.
Hopefully you find one who's snapped out of the fairy tale dream. Otherwise...you just hookup with sick, mental cases who thrive on drama.
It's up to you if you want to play the game...it's fun...but you both end up loosing in the long run.
2006-07-08 18:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by tales 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think not all women like to be treated badly. However majority that do like to be treated bad, or be controlled by men had a absent father in their childhood. This gives them the desire for that later in life. Another factor causing this desire could be seeing their mother get treated badly by their father figure growing up. A lot in your childhood relationships develops what your attractions in future relationships may be, especially in women.
2006-07-08 18:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by d_townsfinestmami429 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you choose the wrong kind of woman. A woman that is secure in herself and is confident does not like to be treated badly and would not stand for it. You should try finding someone else. Not only does it make you look bad for treating them that way, they look bad too for accepting to be treated that way.
2006-07-08 18:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by Virgo77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are passive/aggressive, get help. And just so you know healthy women do not like being mistreated, in fact no one likes to be mistreated. The conditioning women go through to become women, in a violent sexist culture such as most of western societies, would leave one to believe that women like the abuse. Do not perpetuate this abuse. Be part of the solution, not part of the problem.
2006-07-08 18:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i guess its kind of like a turn on or something that's why some girls go for the bad guys. they know there bad but they still want to be with them. when a guy treats a girl mean or badly or cheat on them the girl still might get back together with them. its weird to me to.
2006-07-08 18:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by christina f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't like being treated badly, but lots of guys who like to be jerks try to tell themselves we do. I guess it's the only way they can feel good about their pathetic selves. As for me, I'll take a gentleman any day!
2006-07-08 18:35:14 · answer #11 · answered by Blue_eyed_Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋