Like if you're in certain positions is it alright to help youself? Or does it make the guy feel like he's not good?
2006-07-08 18:27:51 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shot, I help my girlfriend out all of the time when she is riding on top. If I am not playing with her breasts so that she can play with her clit, than I am playing with her clit. Towards the end I have to hold her on or else she falls off.
2006-07-08 18:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by andy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah, guys are visual. If you're 'helping yourself' we're going to think its because were so good that you've lost all self control :-) Besides, there's no , excuse the expression, hard and fast rules. Sex is for fun.
2006-07-08 18:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think that it would make the guy feel insecure but it probably depends on the guy. You'd have to make that decision based on how well you know him. If he seems bothered just let him know that it simply enhances an already amazing experience.
2006-07-08 18:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead!! Touch yourself!!
Even put on a show for him. It's nothing strange, guys touch themselves too during sex, everyone does, its sex, its about exploring your body, and finding out what YOU like.
2006-07-08 18:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by Alan L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it arousing: the lady is intent on enjoying herself the best way she can. I suppose my big fat ego would like to be the one and only source of her enjoyment, but this sure beats the hell out of her squinching up her eyes and gritting her teeth. My vote: touch away and share your happiness with your lover.
2006-07-08 18:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by corsair24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy, that's where good communication is all important. I personally wouldn't be with any guy who would be bothered by it, because it says he puts his ego over and above your mutual satisfaction, and that gets old after awhile.
2006-07-08 18:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by Blue_eyed_Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it will turn him on more. See if he is a normal person and loves you, He is probably worried about making you hit the big OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO right, so if he k nows you are going to hit it on you own it looses him up. Then bang your having great sex.
2006-07-08 18:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, as a guy I don't mind at all. But if you'd like your guy to touch you somewhere just move his hand there, he'll get the hint. But don't be afraid to help yourself out, you gotta get yours, you know he's gonna get his.
2006-07-08 18:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by Some guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definetely ok. It shows that you are getting into it, if the guy thinks he's not any good, explain to him that it's just making a good thing better.
2006-07-08 18:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its fine and a turn on for some guys during sex and nice for you too.
2006-07-08 18:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by doryanne949 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋