2006-07-08 18:11:54 · 10 answers · asked by doryanne949 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just jump in with both feet,after you get the first one over with it gets easier.I had several 'bad' dates at first,but then I realized it really was not much different than when I was a teenager.Remember,we men are just as nervous as you are on the first date.
2006-07-08 18:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by J_DOG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not much an expert when it comes to divorce but i will try my best in helping u out...ur afraid to date b/c ur afraid of rejection again. Look not moving on will only hurt u more and will start to make u think about stuff...a night out on the town with some friends can be the babysteps of all this and when goin out ask friends to bring new people with them so u meet new people and start socializing...when goin out dont think of it as dating think of it as makeing new friends...and from there see how things go
2006-07-09 01:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by FbI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's tough but if your not happy being alone then you should try to get out there and meet someone. Don't expect anything, it's OK to Hope, to dream but expect nothing!! It's too much pressure on yourself and the other party, and as for the fear....... What exactly are you afraid of? Anyone you meet is a different person then who you dealt with, sure there might be similarities but it's a completely New person; and it's wrong to compare one person to the other..... Just enjoy their company.
2006-07-09 01:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by lymondlee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afraid. the more you think about it too the more afraid youll get. you cant blame ohters because of what has happened to you in the past. move fowards not backwords is a saying me and my friends use all the time that gets us through anything. keep your head up and jump right back in there. take some time for your self if you need it but if you dont hey go for it. im sure a wonderful person that has alot to offer and dont let others get to in the way of your happiness.
2006-07-09 01:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mariah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the worst that could happen?
divorce? LOL
Seriously, just do it. I met my current wife a month after my divorce was finalized.
I just started asking women out, I heard a LOT of No's, and enough yes's to let me ask another.
2006-07-09 01:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afraid . whatever happened in your old relationship is not a new persons prob. not all are the same the longer you wait the more of a chance your new love will pass you by!
2006-07-09 01:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by mekellygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it simple at first ... coffee @ a non national chain coffee shop and try and remember that if those you date are genuine, they will be as nervios and unsure as you are. Lastly, trust your gut as we ALWAYS know a LOT more than we think we do.
2006-07-09 01:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by christopher7329 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just show confidence, women are more attracted to that than anything. Just ask the women here if they think confidence is sexy. Bet you get some good answers.
2006-07-09 01:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set your fears aside and find a date.
2006-07-09 01:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel you are upseted with what you have experienced previously.
it is better to forget past and has think about your future
2006-07-09 01:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Venkata N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋