For the past 2 years, I've grown up an intense amount, and without the friends I have had over the years, I know I would be dead. Without them today, I know I would have a .45 in my skull and instead of the apt I live in, I would live in a pile of dirt, 6 feet under. I litterly owe my life to my friends.
My two best friends just broke up, I've never been in this situation before, I can't chose a side, and I don't know what to do. It doesn't feel right to me, but I just wanted them to be happy. I don't to lose anyone here, from the time I met my friends, to on my 22nd birthday where I shot everything that reminded me of how heart broken I was for the past 4 years, they have ALWAYS been there. I don't mean to ramble but I feel powerless here, I hate that feeling, I hate not being able to help my friend when they are in need, like now. I know this want because of me, but it doesn't feel like that. I just never saw it end this way. I love you Alex and Brit, and I'll always be here you both
2006-07-08 17:52:10 · 5 answers · asked by D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is there anything I can do?
2006-07-08 17:52:22 · update #1
You were my first real friends, and I promise I will never forget that.
2006-07-08 17:53:04 · update #2
There is no law or rule that says you can't still be friends with both. break ups happen and we see this all the time. a true friend should never have to choose. just make sure that you make it clear to these two that you still feel the way you do and that you cant choose so try to understand. I am willing to bet they will.
2006-07-08 18:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you're a great friend for being so caring. It's natural to want to step in and stop the pain when our friends are suffering, but sometimes we just can't. All you can do, is like you already have, to let them both know that you are there for them. Follow up each day so they know you haven't forgotten. To know a true friend really cares makes any heartache easier. Good luck, and God bless you!:)
2006-07-09 01:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Blue_eyed_Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though they were there for you, thick and thin, You stay loyal to them both as they are both your friends, no matter that they have split up. You can be both their friend and you have to let them know that. What you have to remember is don't bag the other one out when your with one of them. Thats not nice. Be true to them both and give as much as you can. Im sure they will appreciate it.
2006-07-09 01:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by hugabye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...first realize...people come & go from our lives...some leave very large lasting impressions..others we won't even remember there names...As for your friends, there is no reason to take sides. You are friends with both, always have been, always will be...and that's the stand you can take. There is no "taking sides" when it comes to those who are family in our hearts. "Friends are family we choose"
2006-07-09 01:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by evemarkra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be polite to both of them. If they are your friends, they will remain so even if thy are no longer together. Good Luck.
2006-07-09 00:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋