why my husband want so much sex? have it every night! married for 8 years
2006-07-08 17:51:12 · 62 answers · asked by lee dawn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i am married with 4 kids
2006-07-08 19:42:15 · update #1
men are geared to want sex all the time. its a biological predisposition. we have an ingrained urge to merge. lol.
so, that, coupled with the fact that he loves you, and finds you attractive, makes him want it all the time. and, i think you should give it to him. keep up the good work! lol.
2006-07-08 17:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by hellion210 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Want to trade men? I have to beg my boyfriend for sex. If i'm lucky I get it once every week or two. I feel like an *** being the woman and begging for sex. But seriously, you can use this position to your advantage. Use sex as a reward for him doing things he doesn't want to do. If you are bored then bring some toys into the bedroom or videos. It's all about compromise. Good luck!
2006-07-08 17:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem and been with my husband for 8 years as well. Be glad that he loves you, I know it can get frustrating at times. What I do (I know this is wierd) but when I am not in the mood I tell him to go watch a adult video and take care of it by himself and he does.
2006-07-22 08:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your married with four kids and have sex every night...most couples stop after the first three years..you are lucky and should appericate what you got.. if you need as break just tell him that you are really really tired and need a little break...an then say something like how much better ITwould be if you had time to regevenate..
2006-07-20 20:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by krags47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful that after 8 years and 4 four kids you can still turn him on that much. I say be grateful for what you've got a lot of people would love to be in your shoes.
2006-07-20 12:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by CBS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is a good thing to have sex but every night for 8 years is a little much!
2006-07-20 03:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are lucky, but are you tired sometimes? Does he get more rest than you? Are you more busy than him or more stressed? Are you hindered by the ol' double standard that men are more sexual than women? It could be a number of things.You might want him to give you a break for a night or two if you need your rest. Or you may want to explore your body more to find what turns you on. It may also be a good idea for him to find other ways of expressing his love to you. Find out what you need from him. There is a good book out there called "The Five Love Languages". I'm reading it now. It's pretty good.
2006-07-08 18:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have a personal quest in life to have as much sex as we can before we die and if this guy has had it every night for 8 years he has boosted well over 2500 days, i think he has succeeded in his quest but that doesnt mean hes going to stop if he can always get more.
2006-07-08 17:57:21 · answer #8 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people think they crave sex when they really crave intimacy. Perhaps, he's attempting to connect with you or feel closer to you. Maybe it's hard for him to verbally communicate his feelings, so he expresses himself sexually. If you do decide to tell him something, I would make sure to handle his ego with care. Tell him how amazing he is and how much you love him and how sexy he is. Yet, also tell him that after a day of chasing 4 kids around, sometimes you really are exhausted. After 4 kids and years of marriage, your husband still finds you as desirable and as sexy as the day you met. Cheers to you...
2006-07-22 16:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by Beth A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Afraid to ask him? or Are you afraid the answer might be it's a control issue you are right where he wants you to be always. (subserveient) not much of the romance left huh you did say sex every night! Look with anothers eyes are there more control issues or does he just have to get off with you.. questioning is the step in awakening.......trust love sex control trust love control sex control
2006-07-21 01:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural with him, but you find it little too much. Nature has made both animals and human beings. The sexual behaviour in animals is regulated by the changes in Nature; where as human beings are goaded by their desires controlled by mind and intelligence. Your husband has to grow into a more rational being and overcome these tinsel physical pleasures and pursue happiness available in so many other forms.
2006-07-21 18:23:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋