cause there are many guys in my yahoo messenger who was talking to me and wanna know me better and they wanna see my picture and im sure that when they saw my picture they wont like me cuz im not thet pretty and not in shape.i was like so embarrased with my acnes whenever i go out.how will i know if they like me inside out?
2006-07-08 16:57:24 · 16 answers · asked by lol mama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on the guy. some will pick on you. others you will be able to tell
2006-07-08 16:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by once_upon_a_dream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing you have to realize is that physical beauty is part of dating. Believe it or not, there are a lot of guys out there who don't subscribe to the stereotypical view of beauty. Your personality may win someone over initially, but when they see your picture - you have a true test of their heart. Fact is that in the end looks do matter, but the men who love you will find what they like about you physically and not really worry about the rest. For me...I know I'm an eyes and smile guy. The stuff you mentioned about weight, etc...that doesn't matter to me if the woman has beautiful eyes and a genuine smile. Remember that beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder.
As for wanting to know what they think of you - ask. If you want to know something - be direct. A guy who truly does like you will appreciate it.
2006-07-08 17:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOOOH no girl where is the self love boo whether you are big small you are beautiful and if they don't like what they see F' em you gotta love you before you can like anyone. Look you can clear that up with proactive and as far as you being big ain't nothing wrong with a big strong girl. the weight you can loose that it's all up to you. And you will know if they like you if they see as a women you respect yourself and they will even keep in contact with you to hang out again. But when you are in that state of mind where you are not feeling good Just look in the mirror and say I'm a "Bad B*tch" (meaning you look good F@#K what anybody else think. and I am out 1
2006-07-08 17:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Antoinette C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they stick around & are there for you, if they actually listen to what you say & want to be around you often & hug you, or have some form of contact with you when they're around you. It's hard to tell with guys...they're not so obvious as we are. You may think they hate you, but they can actually end up liking you more than you could of ever thought. The ones who truely like you will make the first move, & just be around you as much as they can.
It doesn't matter how pretty you are, the nice guys won't care about your looks. & the ones who do don't deserve your time.
2006-07-08 17:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy will like you for whats inside when he becomes your friend and gets to know you for whats inside.That takes time if you are only talking online it may take awhile.Be careful of the ones that only want one thing.I met my current boyfriend on yahoo after 7 months of talking to him, weve been together 6 months and have a wonderful relationship. Love online is possible, i remember one thing he said to me " I love you for whats inside and the beauty is in and out"
2006-07-08 17:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are on the Internet on messenger, you cannot know someone likes you, they can say anything, just to get you to do things, send a picture, turn on your cam, whatever, its just words knowing that you like them, that comes after you meet.
If you have an acne problem go see a dermatologist, or at least get that 'Proactive' stuff, my friends used it and it did work.
2006-07-08 17:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go with BigDaddy you might never know if that person really loves you and they might even turn out to be a kidnapper or a hacker. that is why when you are meeting people online and never seen them before you have to be careful
it depends on you, if you don't feel comfortable around that guy or you just feel peculiar around him, he is not your love. a true love would care if you are depressed or sad or sick, wouldn't cheat on you and would do and choose the right choices for you.
2006-07-08 17:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by hanaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're jumpin to conclusions. Just because you don't like your own appearance, doesn't mean some nice guys wouldn't. I'm wondering myself, tonight, what you look like. But I do like your avatar! Anyway, when men, such as myself, treat you real nice, almost like you were a kid sister, those are the best men, for you.Not only because they wish you were they're sister, but also because they like you!
2006-07-08 17:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't show them the picture. When you are ready and feel comfortable with one, meet at a public place and have dinner (or something). Let them judge you for who you are, not what you look like.
2006-07-08 17:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by BigDaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in doubt, protect yourself. Don't be be in a hurry to have someone like you. But don't hide either. Let your personality shine, your loving spirit flow, and before you know it. BAM!! Like a bolt of lightning, you'll know.
2006-07-08 17:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by jckson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will like you on the inside if they want to get to know you and they might ask to meet you. afterwards if you decide to meet them then that is when you will find out wether or not they like you on the ouside because they will still try and talk to you.
2006-07-08 17:00:49 · answer #11 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋