Can I get some help from Wiccans or Pagans?

Question

I know this is kind of spell begging but I need some help. An ex-friend of my family is destroying my family. He influenced my father to divorce my mother and sent her to jail on fake charges. I need something to get him away from my dad and lessen his influence. I know his name and know exactly what he looks like. I don't have a pic of him though. I do know where he lives, but its very far and I don't know when/if I'll get there. What can I do? Thanks

PS. I'm rather report happy so any BS comments will be reported. If you want to offer sympathy thats OK. Thanks.

I like the freezer idea, but he isn't really in my life. I don't live in the area anymore so I just hear about it all the time. I know about law of 3 fold and thanks for your concern, but I don't know what else to do right now. We've tried to get a restaining order, but the judge believed his lies. And if the effect is I can't interfer with him, I'm ok!!!

bluefirewitch, Thanks for your concern and I do understand the bad things that could come with this, but I am a witch, have been for 6 years. I had an idea of what to do/use but wanted some in-put. If I had anywhere else to turn or anything else to do, I would do it.

Answer 1

My advice would be to do a spell that will return any negative energy this person sends towards your family back to him. I love this sort of spell, since it uses the person's own negativity against them. I've done several of these and it works every time. I wrote this one myself using a type of magick known as Hoodoo.

You will need a black and red reversible double action candle (ie a candle that's black on top and red on the bottom), banishing oil (you can purchase these online, at local pagan shops, or make your own with lots of recipes available online), and a rusty nail. This spell will work best if performed on a Saturday during the waning moon, in order to banish the negativity. Inscribe the name of the person on the candle with the rusty nail. You can also inscribe a sword and shield on the candle for an extra boost; the symbols will protect you from any negativity and push it away from you at the same time. While annointing the candle with banishing oil, recite Psalm #7 for defence against your enemies. Holding the image of the person in your mind, light the candle, and allow it to burn itself out.

I would also do a cleasing ritual for your father, mother and any other family members affected. This will eliminate all remaining traces of negativity and infuse the homes (and people) with positive energy. This could be as simple as smudging the houses and property with sage incense, or picturing white energy surrounding and penetrating them while asking for the aid of the Lord and Lady.

Blessed Be

Answer 2

Ok if you really have exhausted all non arcane methods of dealing with this person, which I suggest you do. Then I would suggest some sort of stay away spell. There are many kinds of spells to help you with this but you really should work one out yourself. The more personal the spell is to the caster the better the results. It can be as simple or as elaborate as you like. Research is a lovely thing I strongly suggest you do some, there is plethora of information out there that can assist you in this task.

I would not suggest a binding. Binding someone against their will or without their knowledge is interfering with their free will. This will earn you some kind of karmic backwash and I am sure you don’t want that. Remember what you send out comes back times three. Be careful and really think on your intent, who it will effect besides this person , and what the consequences might be. Both good and bad.

Lastly, please remember magic and spells are not a fix all. Nor are they something to dabble in lightly. There are some things you can do to help the situation, but if you think chanting a rhyme and lighting a few candles will fix everything, you are in for disappointment.

Answer 3

I was having simmilar problems, my friend suggested you take a glass of water, put a plate overtop of it, and then flip it over (so that the water doesn't come out) and put it somewhere and leave it there till its better. Its been working so far.

One of the things i find with spell casting is that you have to come at it from a "what seems like its going to work for me" perspective. I use lavender in banishings, which is universailly thought of as weird, but know what? It works for me. That's the way you have to look at it. If you think writing out his name, putting it in a jar and burrying it under the full moon will work, then go for it, your power comes from your belief in what you're doing. Not necessaraly from a book.

Also, talk to you dad about what he's going and what he's doing to you. You need to deal with the problems on this level as well as the other. And if this guy is threatening violence, or is doing you harm in some way get a restraining order on him, if you must. You have to remember you also have to live in THIS world, so you have to make some motions to protect yourself in THIS world. You also might wanna do some things to chill out your home too. Deal with his effects as well as him ya know?

Look for the Druid's Herbal, its a REALLY good place to start on all of this, I'm sure you can get it on Amazon.com or BN.com

Answer 4

The best thing for you would be a Binding spell. You will need some white ribbon or cord. You can look online for numerous binding spells, so I won't spam you with one. They're all pretty much the same. I suggest you make a paper doll to represent him. Often the spells ask for a photograph, but a paper doll made by you will be just fine.

Answer 5

Ok i feel sorry for you, but synthia's right its against all that we believe in "as long as thou harm none do what thou wilt" you need their permission and to harm none. If you really are one of us you would know that, i've only just got into it im 13 years old and even I know that is the most important thing.

There is allways concequences. Allthough you could cast a protection spell on your self but not against anyone or for anyone else. Burn some sage and sit in a circle of 9 amythyst rocks and ask the elements for protection also write a simple spell on your own asking for help and to be cleansed of evil that inhabbits your mind thank the elements afterwords.

Answer 6

Most Pagans and Wiccans with a consious will not condone a spell that is directed toward a person without their consent. It goes against our code not to harm others.

We also dont give spells to Cowans (non pagans) because they don't know how to manage their energy for spellwork. Its not a good idea.

Answer 7

Simplest way I know to get rid of someone is put them in the freezer (figuratively speaking) Write thier full name and all other info about them you know on a piece of paper, put it in a cup of water, and put it way in the back of your freezer. Don't look at it anymore, and try to put them out of your mind. Its always worked for me. By doing this, you are symbolically freezing them out of your life.

Answer 8

uhh i know one spell that can make a person you dont want go away.. its like you drip tabasco sauce, cayenne pepper and like red dust or soemthign aroudn your house and think of the person..

or you can bind them..

or
write the persons name on a peice of paper. and light the paper and while it burns think of the person leaving you life..

hope it helps!

ps.also know,for this situation its better to use non-magical ways to get this person to leave than to resort to magic..
and ahaha remeber what you do comes back 3 fold.

Answer 9

Try here, it should have what you need. A binding spell might be the best bet but it isn't without consequences, remember that.
http://www.sacred-texts.com/bos/

Answer 10

I reported you for threat to do harm.