is dating. should i confront my sister and her boyfriend after school and tell them this is HARAM!! My sister is muslim, so she should know that this is immoral and my parents would never approve of this. should i also tell my parents that she has a boyfriend so that can save her soul from an etnierty of hell? Why the hell do muslims date when it is very immoral?!! Dating always leads to sex and if i dont do something now she is going to end up in trouble.
2006-07-08 16:24:24 · 8 answers · asked by Lorrane 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I would talk to your sister in private. Maybe she's just confused or maybe she doesn't truly share the same religious philosophy as you do, only she knows why she's doing what she's doing.
2006-07-08 16:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by minix0987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A date is just that, a date. It's a meeting where people can get to know each other better.
Looks like you have already made up your mind about what to do, but you should think about it more. If it troubles you a lot then talk to your sister about it. I would talk to her before telling anyone else. Your religious views are not the same as others and you shouldn't try to push them on your sister, be open-minded.
Try to think about how your sister feels. Think first.
2006-07-08 23:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not Muslim, but I think I can understand your plight. First, if you rat her out (tell your parents about her) she may lose any trust in you she may have had to begin with. Second, she is the one at fault, although it is very righteous of you to want to keep her from harm. Should your parents find out, well, you know what that will do to the peace of the family household. Plus if your parents find out the situation, they may throw her out of the house, bu I'm not sure what Muslim custom would dictate in this situation. Not all dating leads to sex, at least it didn't with me anyway, but I'd say that It happens quite (too) frequently. My only reccomendation is to plead with your sister to hold fast to your Muslim traditions and beliefs. My older brother dated a girl in high school that my dad did not approve of. My brother did not quit dating her has my father commanded him, so my father, threw him out of the house to go live on his own in his JUNIOR year in high school. We were raised as Catholics by the way, and neither I nor my brother profess that religion anymore. Is there any chance that you caould ask your Holy man (I don't know the proper word for that, I apologize for my ignorance) what you could do to set the situation right? Or would this cause even more trouble for your family? Something tells me it would. IF your parents found out about your sister, and further find out that YOU knew and didn't say anything, that could make matters a whole lot worse. If nothing else, we can always pray for insight as to how to remedy this situation. Pray and then do what your heart tells you is best. I will pray for you and your family so that peace may be maintained in your household. That is, providing of course, that you would allow me to do such. I hope you will remember that a Christian once tried to help you with your troubles so that you may never say that all Christians are trash. I have no trouble helping any human being with any power I can muster to assist them in their troubles. I don't know if I've helped you any. But I will pray for you.
PEACE
2006-07-08 23:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by Rollover Mikey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating doesn't always lead to sex. I've dated 3 guys, all long term, and had sex with none of them.
However, you should first approach your sister before you approach your parents if you believe it is morally wrong for her to date. Approaching your parents first will only but a rift between you and your sister.
2006-07-08 23:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Candice H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister to stop dating or you will tell your parents.
2006-07-09 00:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating doesn't ALWAYS lead to sex as you state... dating won't send someone to hell either...
2006-07-08 23:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dating dosen't lead to sex, although i would approach your sister about it first
2006-07-08 23:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by okayokayokay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you'll do is get your sister to hate you.
2006-07-08 23:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by ThatGuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋