Well I'm in Florida right now for vacation. I thought it would be only me my dad and my little sister, but when I got there (to orlando), there was a women and she was pregnant. I didn't know who she was but when I got home to my dads apartment and entered their room I noticed that their was pictures of them kissing and posing, etc. Caroline (my little sis) and I are always uncomfortable thinking about THEM. I don't know what to do, my parents are still married and he's cheating on my mom. My dad insisted my mom not come and said we were going to BOND. What should I do?
2006-07-08 16:18:35 · 11 answers · asked by Leslie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk to your dad ALONE about what is going on and how uncomfortable it makes you feel.....You poor dear.......The only thing that you can realize that is GOOD out of this situation is that parents aren't perfect and make mistakes too.....That's no excuse for your dad's behavior, unfortunately.....Tell him EXACTLY what you think, and if you feel uncomfortable around "them" tell him that you want to go home.....Maybe he'll get the picture.....I sure hope so for you and lil sis!!!!! Take care honey.....
2006-07-08 16:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That is crazy. I would tell him that you are uncomfortable with the situation. If he asks why, I would possible leave without saying another word, go on a walk or something. He knows what he is doing. It is his responsibity to handle this aweful situation he has put you in. You can be there for him and care about him, but he needs to think about what he is doing and make you feel comfortable if that is possible.
That is ridiculous, how irresponsible!!!
2006-07-08 23:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by Tim J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems very strange, unless your mom and dad are maritally separated, that he would subject you and your sister to facts that would indicate he was having an illicit affair with another woman.
If however he and your mother are legally separated then his only mistake was not making his current relationship known to you, your sister and your mother.
If he and your mother are not separated and he's having an affair then you should talk to him and have him explain his actions to you and your sister.
2006-07-08 23:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your cheating *** father you want to go home. Then tell you mom he's cheating and has a baby on the way with his new hoe!
2006-07-08 23:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound too young to be dealing with a problem like this. tell your mom and let them deal with it. i hope this works out for you and your sister. sorry to tell you this but your dad has issues and he is wrong for putting you guys in the middle of his mess...
2006-07-08 23:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your father that you want to go home and tell your mom. It's better to tell her than not. Don't get caught up in your dad's lies.
2006-07-08 23:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by aloneathome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rat on your father. Things will get ugly, but they'd get even uglier if you tried to pretend as if nothing happened.
2006-07-08 23:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by O M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom its the best thing to do she should know and you might want to get some proof just in case
2006-07-08 23:22:35 · answer #8 · answered by esile619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you dont support his relationship with this woman and about how it makes you uncomfortable.
2006-07-08 23:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very tough. I would pointedly refuse to take any more trips with him, and if he pushes it tell him you're going to tell your mother why.
2006-07-08 23:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋