Once a cheater, always a cheater?
2006-07-08 15:56:56 · 27 answers · asked by gnuck gnuck 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am tempted to agree with you. I have never cheated -Once I didn't like the girl I was dating and spent the last three weeks trying to figure out how to break up with her - but I dodn't cheat.
But if there was a time I would have it would have been that one time ..... but that would have been because I just didn't like the relationship I was in. Other men are different .and don't think the issues is all that important and that sex is sex and the more the better.
I guess what I am trying to say is don't brand a man a cheater until you hear out the motives and patterns.
If he repeatedly does this yes but a one time thing no ......but if he's already cheated on YOU then likely. He needs a different girl he either does not like you does not want a long term relatioship in any case it is about you and him big time
2006-07-08 16:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated on one g/f, and I never cheated on any of the other ones either.
Generally, yes always a cheater. However, there are the very few who actually have a conscience and never do it again. Maybe Kobe Bryant is one of them, but I doubt it, he is afraid of a divorce and losing all his money rather than being truly sorry.
2006-07-08 23:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by deez3po2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody was born a cheater. If you are a cheater today, you can still be a cheater tomorrow and for the rest of your life if that is your choice. ITS A MATTER OF CHOICE.
2006-07-08 23:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like to view it is this way, yes once a cheater always a cheater, but i add...
one cheater desevers another.
never ever truley being able to trust the other knowing they are just as capable as the other.
2006-07-08 23:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-07-08 22:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by Kyle c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually
2006-07-08 22:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Wiseguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not in my opinion. Cheating IS an addiction amongst most men who have cheated before. But if they get help, through guilt trips and such, they will stop. Men have a conscious too...
And, seriously, why is it when men are caught cheating they are assholes and are NEVER forgiven, but when a WOMAN cheats on her b/f or husband, its, "oh, poor girl, come here, its ok, i'll forgive you as long as you promise NEVER to do it again. ok ?"
Psh....b.s.
2006-07-09 17:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by drQuiggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy can cheat once he can cheat twice. I think if he was that weak in the first place he will always be that weak and can't be trusted.
2006-07-08 23:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to realize men, guys, boys are made to keep going and they should not be tied down
if they were allowed to have more than one wife, the cheating would stop completely..completely forever..
plus they would not have time to run around and go to bars.the females would keep him so busy doing yard work and house work and so forth the guys wouldn't have any time to cheat
and he females would have friends for life with the other wives..
2006-07-08 23:01:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
2006-07-09 01:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by footballstar_64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋