why should a religion be a barrier to love?

Question

How can i tell this muslim lady that i am in love with her? why should islam come between love? ( by the way she knows my feelings)

Answer 1

Hello..From my stance and point of view religion cannot be a real barrier among people or Love..But take into account that the Muslim lady is even stronger in her beliefs and virtues. She will never allow just a man,who will be some kind of lover.Islam is a religion that do not separate the people..the opposite.If you have som serious intentions toward that Lady you have to be very honest and to share with her everything..So that respecful lady deserves your attention and also utter honesty. Again if you have serious intention about Her you must reconsider your views and why not you to accept Islam..? Best of luck!

Answer 2

Awwww! That's so sweet!! Religion should not come between love, but I can understand where you are coming from. It seems like you are a decent guy, you respect the fact that she is Muslim and won't try and change her right? If she means this much to you, don't let your difference in religion keep you apart. My mother is Muslim, but she has been married to my father, a Methodist for over 20 years. They have never picked on each other because of their religion just as long as they have one. My sisters and I are Catholic and go to Catholic schools.
If the woman you are in love with recipcrocates your feelings then don't let religion keep you apart. Love is too precious and knows no bounds or barriers.

Answer 3

Speaking of contradictions, why did you just get on here and ask "How can I tell this muslim lady that I am in love with her (by the way she knows my feelings)?"

If she knows, you've already told her. And if you love her, islam hasn't "come between love."

Now, if she chooses to be (or remain) a religion that forbids your love, you can't blame the religion. That's HER choice. You should put the monkey where it goes.

Answer 4

Unlike other religions Islam is a complete way of life. Its total submission to god which means you have to follow the Islamic code of conduct in All aspect of your life. We Muslims believe this world is only a trial for the Hereafter. If she really believes like this then that would mean jeopardizing her future (hereafter) just to be with you. If you really love her wouldnt you like her to have what's best for her? Im afraid there are only a few options for you my friend. 1) You could forget her and look for someone else (i know that could be extremely difficult but maybe this is the best option for you). 2) If you are willing to do anything you could convert to her religion. I advise you to do a thorough research and then make a decision with logic and reasoning, without emotions clouding your judgment. Good luck with whatever you do.

Answer 5

I don't think religion should be a barrier to love with some people.Does your Muslim friend take her religion very seriously? Is she a fundamentalist? How deep are your religious beliefs? I think that if religion is not an important factor in either of your lives you should do fine. However, if religion is very important to one of you it might cause tension. Ever thing of converting to Islam?

Answer 6

She is a Trojan horse that should be avoided like a plague . You should consider castration before ever entering into a relationship with her . Beat your head against a brick wall every time you think of her. Move to another part of the world.

She will have you bombing American buildings to show your love to her. She is most likley a paid leg opener from terrorist groups. You won't be her 1st and definately NOT her last.

Once the paid female terrorist is done using you , the male terror pimps will light your private parts while still erect fastening M80's around your enlarged manhood. You will wish you never knew this masked snake , just like the last four dudes that got the treatment.

Answer 7

It shouldn't be a barrier to love, it should set love free. You would tell her you love the same way you would tell any one else. Maybe a union such as that can begin to help the world break DOWN barriers and spread a little peace. My blessings, as a Christian, and sincere good wishes to you

Answer 8

If she is a devout muslim and you truly understood her beliefs and her strong personal convictions, I don't see how you could even ask why the religion should be a barrier.

You can't honestly expect someone to change their entire lives and beliefs for your convenience. But if you truly are stubborn here's my advice:
1. Respect her beliefs
2. Be a good friend
3. Let what happens happen

Answer 9

Inter-religious relationships can become difficult in two ways:

1) Differences in spirituality can make relating to each other difficult

2) Determining which religious tradition to raise your children under could be difficult.

Answer 10

Religion comes between love because you are unequally yoked. Her beliefs or your beliefs will always break down your walls of love.