so i really like this guy at school a lot but he really likes my best friend. she feels really bad because she doesn't like him. she used to but when she stoped, he started liking her and i started liking him. Any advise?
2006-07-08 15:47:57 · 7 answers · asked by Sam S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My friend knows i don't like him and thats why she feels bad. she keeps hinting to him that i like him, and makes it obvious, but he just doesn't get it.
2006-07-08 16:08:08 · update #1
ask your friend to flat out tell him she doesn't like him. if she asks why, tell her why: you like him.
but bide you time (you don't want to be on the rebound!) when he seems to have settled down a little then start.
here is some advise for stating a relationship: (if your in high-school & female)
if he has a group of Friends he hangs out with all the time that will be difficult. try to catch him on his own and just say "hi, what's up (insert name here)?". if he doesn't, ask if the seat is taken at the table he's sitting at during linch. typo. lunch
have a short conversation with him while he's walking back to, or between classes. say hi if your passing him or see him. ask if he's going to a dance. if he is. go as well. don't necessarily ask him to go with you. just "happen" to want to go.
you may not know this but dudes are just as shy as dude-ets. they want to ask you out but don't know how or when.
these are the things my gf did and we've ben dating for almost a month-'n'-a-half!
if he start to say hi back, he likes you. at some point ask if he has an e-mail address.
you'll notice if he likes you.
here are some signs to recognize how:
1. he'll smile whenever he sees you.
2. you'll catch him staring at you or turning his head in your direction if your near 'im
3. he'll say good-bye & hello
4. he'll e-mail you often.
eventualy he'll give you his phone number or ask for yours.
BEST OF LUCK!!!
Stargazer,
2006-07-08 15:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Stargazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation. The guy my best friend liked liked me and i liked him but now i dont like him anymore. I think u should probably just stay away from the guy. If he likes you then he will come around and ask you out but for now just check out all the other hott guys!
2006-07-08 15:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww thats so candy! Now i'm 11, yet i'm exceedingly advantageous he likes the fact of you liking him. So he have been given slightly weigh down on you. you may desire to ask him out. See what he says. i'm exceedingly advantageous he will choose for it. putting around you is a demonstration. good luck.
2016-12-10 06:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These situations are the worst....
Well, there's nothing you can really do. He's doesn't like you, and there's no way you can convince him to. I think the best thing you can do is move on and find someone better.
(unless he might like you AND your friend, try to find that out)
2006-07-08 15:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most you could do is show all your best qualities of yourself from you appearance to your personality to him. And if he still doesn't ask you out, then I would forget about him. There's no way you can make someone like you.
2006-07-08 15:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by pureessence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like i always say... people can't help who they like. The best thing you could do is just be there for him and be his friend. He'll realize how much of a compatible mate you could be for him and then the rest is up to fate. good luck with that!
2006-07-08 15:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Nic Jones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never date or date an ex-boyfriend of your friends. All it causes fights between you guys. I would find someone else.
2006-07-08 15:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Colleen O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋