im 14 and my bf has had 37 gfs he says he luvs me and stuff and plz dont say im too young for a relationship lik dis...just try to help me i cant take that kind of comment right now...but im jsut afraid hes not really worth my time and hes a lil older than me so i dont kno wut to do or wut to think of da situation...plz help me!
2006-07-08 15:43:45 · 18 answers · asked by santacruz_soccer_chik77 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really luv him too so it would be hard to dump him, i understand wut u guys are trying to say and i cant get my heartbroken again but breaking up wit him would be breaking my own heart...: (
2006-07-08 15:50:01 · update #1
omg u guys are making me cry!
2006-07-08 15:52:35 · update #2
thank u guys!
2006-07-08 15:56:02 · update #3
Track records does speaks REAL loud. And it seems the reason he had 37 gf is because he gets involve with real young one who don't know better and whose feelings he can play with and get away with. I am not trying to hurt your feelings really but I think you are number 38. His track record. But please be careful they are many people out there as carriers of many diseases. And he is hopping from one to another. Too risky .
2006-07-08 15:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have dated a lot of younger girls of legal age of course lol. but back on the subject. I only dated the young ones for fun nothing serious, because I liked mature girls. I hope i did not hurt your feelings, because I have seen it happen that older guy just want something young and fun that's all. So you need someone around your age and please let this be a learning experience do not get to involved into this guy you will only get yourself hurt.
2006-07-08 15:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...anyone that has had 37 girlfriends is pretty dang insecure or they are just not wanting to settle down for one reason or another. I don't know how he can claim to love you and turn around and date other people
Be careful with that one. Listen to your heart. I have a feeling you know what the answer is and you just want to confirm it.
I am afraid that he will lead you to nothing but dead ends and a broken heart.
2006-07-08 15:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but maybr the answer is in what you dont want to hear...u r too young but 37 gfs his been around and has the nerve t o tell you its either girls are a conquest to him and you r another number to him or he has some problems!leave him alone you must be worth more than that surely
2006-07-08 15:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by bravo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me tell you...You are too young for...Just kidding I wont tell you that, I just wanna say that if you love him and if he treats you right, respects you in all ways possible, then I think you should give him a chance, may be he was in search of a real love until he found..you, just keep your eyes open and enjoy what you have now. Good luck!
2006-07-08 15:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by fun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has had 37 girlfriends and is only a little older than you, he is not a keeper. If you are thinking he is prolly not worth your time, listen to yourself and dump him.
2006-07-08 15:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow im sorry thats just crazy! and no im not sayin bout ur age. but i ask u duz he hav a wandering eye a blank feeling wen ur talking to him and he just nods and says uh huh? if so (especially the wandering eye part) than he is lying through his teeth and as sad as it may seem he just go's out with those girls to show off to the guys
2006-07-08 15:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by irish skater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should dump him..u could do soo much better than a piece of trash like him! if he is messing wit other chicks than honey he is not worth ur timE!! i no from experience...even though he tells u he loves u its all BS!! so make the rite decision!
2006-07-08 15:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I'm 14 too and I really would like to talk to u so i can really get the full situation so im me, click my name and my yahoo account is there, ok i understand u love him, i understand leaving him would be like slitting your own wrists but its a lot better to break your own heart as oppose to staying with him and having him break it...
2006-07-08 22:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not his girlfriend. You're just female 38.
That should show you what he's about.
Love them, and leave them.
He could be looking for 39 right now.
2006-07-08 15:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋