I need help... someone i really don't like has a serious crush on me... what do I do to get rid of him, and don't say act like i am totally gross, that will make all the hot guys hate me
2006-07-08 15:31:33 · 23 answers · asked by KelseyKhaotic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kick him in the nads, or tell him you really don't like him. If he still doesn't get it, then pretend you like him, and let him feel you up, then sue him for sexual harrasment.
2006-07-08 15:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, when I was a junior in HS, I had a guy who was a sophomore who used to drive me completely nuts... wouldn't take no for an answer, etc... Summer passed, and the following year, he ended up in one of my classes. I couldn't hide from him then, so I got to know him and I found out that he was a really nice guy underneath the pest persona. I ended up dating him for 6 months after that. I would say give this guy a fair chance... he may surprise you. If you honestly don't like him and don't even want to give it a chance, just let him down easy. Something along the lines of 'I'm sorry, but I really don't like you that way; I hope you understand.' Hopefully he will, and it won't make you come across as a mean person. As for the 'hot guys', just remember... cute doesn't always mean everything. Most of the time, the cute ones are the jerks.
2006-07-08 15:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by paigematthews225 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress up as "flasher" on Halloween. Trench coat, men's tshirt, Wear an old man mask and get a men's pair of boxers. Use a stuffed pantyhose leg with some Spanish moss from a craft store glued to the boxers. A nice extra touch is stuffing a pillow under the t-shirt for a sexy beer belly. Trust me, if you flash this guy it will totally creep him out and any sense of homophobia within the guy will deter him for good!
2006-07-08 15:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by outtadaloop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to regulate your attitudes and make the first bypass. give up awaiting the guy to make the first bypass...once you're fairly classic, possibly ask a chum, male or woman, to inform the guy that you want him and favor something. adult men are petrified of rejection and so many times do no longer make a bypass, yet when the guy knows earlier than time he will succeed, then he ought to bypass first. also, you ought to do not ignore that women are frequently extra mature at an in the previous age than adult men, so possibly this guy is too emotionally immature and youthful for you, regardless of in case you sense attracted.
2016-11-06 01:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him simply and firmly (with authority) what you really feel. Then walk away and do something else. Don't talk around it or sweeten it up. Tell the truth, but make it sound pleasent, and be humane. He'll hurt for a couple days, but he'll get over it and it'll help him grow up (meaning, he'll start leaving you alone.)
2006-07-08 15:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know u sed womans help but i hav a nak for solving problems like this if he dusnt aproach u then just forget about if he dus let him down nicely and be honest
as a last resort its kinda cruel though and he might know ur lying through ur teeth tell him ur goin out with sumone alredy
(besides acting discusting never worx anyway)
2006-07-08 15:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by irish skater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be nice but dont flirt in any way to send him the wrong message, i mean you dont want to hurt his feelings that would be mean but just because someones likes you doesnt mean you have to like him back. If he asks you out tell him you think hes a sweet guy (or a nice guy) but that hes just not your type or that youre not allowed to date or you have a boyfriend, theres ways around it without hurting the guy
2006-07-08 15:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by Audra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is talking to you, texting you, generally stalking you? or is he just the boy who stares and blushes from afar? If he's not actually talking to you or bothering you, don't do anything. If he's coming up to you and trying to flirt or whatever, tell him that you're excited because you and your 'boyfriend' are going to see a movie during the weekend. that should do the trick.
2006-07-08 15:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by deadsushi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont talk to him or try to have any type of contct with him. try to avoid him as much as possible and just try not to be mean to him if he comes up to you because you wouldnt want anybody to do that to you. If he comes up to you just find a nice way to brush him off and let im know that you have no interest in him.
2006-07-08 15:36:32 · answer #9 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u need to show him ur a slut b/c if u acting weird makes u worry all the "hot" guys wont talk to u ur a slut
2006-07-08 15:35:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋