I met him online. He really completes me. I feel like I am crazy. I would never beleive this to happen to me. I have made fun of everyone else for this very thing. I plan on going to see him. Do you think I am crazy?? He is oversea from me.
2006-07-08 15:04:46 · 13 answers · asked by Miriah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
welcome to my world! i met my bf online, right here in yahoo...he lives in scotland..we have never met in person....we talk on the IM and use our webcams and talk on the phone...we also mail stuff to eachother...this aug he is coming to montana to see me for the first time! i would say i am in love with him and have never met him...so no you are not crazy! and until this happened to me, i never believed it to be possible....hope it all works out for you! hey, keep me posted as to how it turns out! i would love to know...i will keep a blog going on my 360 page of how it goes for me and rab once he is here! good luck and have a good time!
2006-07-08 17:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 15⤊ 8⤋
Ok how can someone u have NEVER met complete u? U don't even know him, if he walk past u tomorrow u wouldn't even know him so how can he complete u?
I think ur in love with the idea of being in love. And it's not safe to go see some one u never met and across sea can be even more dangerous, what if he's a nut who's surf the net to find someone hurt or kill. U shouldn't do this sweetie, U read and see it on the news all the time about tis kind of thing. U want to have ur family hurting over the fact that u went to meet someone u met online who could be the grim reeper?
2006-07-08 15:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not crazy..... in all honesty it's not likely he is who he says he is, but if he is one of those rare guys who is honest, then I wish you all the best. My cousin met her last bf online, and it worked out great for a long time... they broke up mostly b/c she wants to have a family and he doesn't. My advice though is do not go meet him alone, go with at least two friends... and he should come to you if he is overseas... a girl shouldn't go to some foreign place like that. Good luck and be really careful.
2006-07-08 15:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're blinded by love. It doesn't matter how many nice things you say about him on here, once you said "he has a dark side to him and he is verbally abusive at times.." that's already a really REALLY big clue that you should stop talking to him and look for a nice guy who you know won't hurt you- verbally or physically. Because if he has the nerve to verbally abuse you, there's nothing stopping him from physically abusing you. You not meeting him after all this time is your body's own intuition crying out saying that you shouldn't ever meet this guy in person. Listen to what your own subconscious behavior is trying to tell you.
2016-03-15 21:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are crazy at all, i met this guy on the internet and i think he is so sweet but you never know he might be some creep... so i don't think you are crazy, but if you are that into him i would arrange to meet him somewhere with LOTS of people around
2006-07-08 15:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by KelseyKhaotic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an online friend I have is totally ga-ga over a girl in another country he has never met. He is kicking himself for falling in love online, but there is something to it. It's like an old fashioned courtship in a way, where words doing the talking for the heart and people aren't judged just on their looks.
Be cautious, though. You don't really know who is online and who is pretending to get your personal info and take advantage of you.
2006-07-08 15:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's possible that you can like, admire, respect, be infatuated with, and THINK you love someone you never met... but I don't think you can truly love them. That's too big an emotional investment to make in someone who might not actually be the person he's made himself out to be.
2006-07-08 15:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me too but he wasnt overseas . that part is a little crazy . but the whole online realtionship thingy in todays world is normal . thats how i met my man nd ive been wid him from almost 3 years now . so i dont think your crazie because if you;ve been thru it then you know what its like . so no your not crazy
2006-07-08 15:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you're crazy... probably just lonely. I am not sure if it's possible to really get to know someone online. Everything they tell you could be complete lies. Just be cautious and safe.
2006-07-08 15:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by Miss D 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You cannot LOVE someone you have never met.
2006-07-08 15:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by Shorty 2 · 2⤊ 6⤋
Maybe.
2006-07-08 15:48:17 · answer #11 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋