ok im 19 and my boyfriend is 23, we have been friends for 5 years but dating for 2. We just recently had a baby girl 2 months ago, and now everything feels drastically diffrent. We used to have so much fun,we were just like friends. Now he always talks about how he needs to go to his mothers house to get away....ALL THE TIME! He says it's because he's still not use to the change, but I feel more and more like were growing apart everyday.
2006-07-08 15:01:43 · 11 answers · asked by GossipQueen101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he's running away from his responsibilities... Try getting a babysitter once in a while so you two have time for just each other. Good luck.
2006-07-08 15:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both are still very young. why not let someone watch the child while you go out now and then together alone. you both made a very adult decision by having the baby he needs to wake up and take responsibilty but no need to give up your life as a couple. take time together go do something just the two of you.
2006-07-08 22:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that happens when a child is born out of wedlock. A boyfriend-girlfriend relationship does not have the same finality as marriage does. There is no official committment or maritial vows. Unfortunatley, there are many "dead beat" dads because of this situation.
2006-07-08 22:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by keb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what happens when you have a baby at 19... But try talking to him and let him know how you feel. If you tell him rather than us, hopefully he can help you more. Good luck!
2006-07-08 22:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by tommywheelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no **** he got what he wanted ,now there is 3 stop giving it up, an tell him to grow up, if he can make a baby then have him help with her.it's too bad you are so young .now you have too grow up fast. good luck now.xx ps. he has to go home every time things get bad he's a mama's boy not a man.
2006-07-08 22:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by fattboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens sometimes. he wasn't as ready as you thought to have a child. give it some time, and make time for you two to talk or have dinner alone. remember patience is key to making things work. also try to keep him involved with descions and things happening with the baby. He might feel left out.
2006-07-08 22:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by Kim P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need me to tell you having the baby happened at the wrong time.
2006-07-08 22:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by TheSkeptic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be telling you the truth, I dunno. Becoming a parent it a life changing moment. Don't read more into it unless you have evidence of something else going on other than what he is telling you.
2006-07-08 22:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dear, but what is the question?
2006-07-08 22:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by The Backstage Bandit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy...you need to change that title...lol, it sounded like a child molester.
2006-07-08 22:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋