don't get me wrong but my boyfriend always wants to be naughty to me in hurt full ways.one time we slept together th next morning my shorts was pulled down to my knees and his thing wuz hanging out wut do................
2006-07-08 14:45:51 · 18 answers · asked by bunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-08 14:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in the first place a young lady or a woman should not be fornicating or adulterating that is one of the reasons why they treat you wrong because as a man speaking you would be like a trashy young lady or a woman. So that means he is not your boyfriend he is your lover. Thats what you make it seem to him or mistress. So be careful because he thinks you are just another slut.Thats how we think. We always have the one we want in stock. So don't go doing things you shouldn't do. The best of luck.
2006-07-08 14:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by Hoel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This relationship is all wrong you are just but a sex toy to this boy. Plus he prob. kiss and tells. Trust me on this people will start looking at you differently if they find out what you have done together. Tramp, slut you name it that is what your going to branded as so get yourself a better boyfriend that actually cares about you, but not unless your the freaky type and likes that sort of stuff then your fine lol if not then get out. I am a freak so i like the freaky girls not the ones that complain so if i was your boyfriend I would just treat you bad and us you for the sex believe it. good luck
2006-07-08 14:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have already answered your own question by realizing that they are just boys! Boys will be boys , which is to distinguish them from men. Then again men and women do have their moments, and it's healthy to on occasion play the little devil! Who can really be happy with a stuff-shirt and old sour puss
2006-07-08 14:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by namazanyc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's using you to fulfill his own needs. you deserve to be treated like more than a sex object.
you don't have to take this from him or anyone. if your not being respected or treated like a valued partner it's time to move on to some one who will: even if that some one is you. you're better off alone than miserable.
re: his behavior:
unfortunately boys (age 0-100:actions speak louder) sometimes equate the ability to swing their thing with being a man.
real men know how to carry themselves & their thing.
2006-07-08 15:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by 1derous1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not comfortable, tell someone who can really help you. Make sure that you have someone who can physically help and be there if it gets serious. If he is bad to you, don't be romantic about it and think that he is expressing his love, because you are only getting hurt in every way. There are organizations that help women in abusive relationships, i think one is called "Purple Dragon" but i am not sure if my memory is right. Be strong and be smart!
2006-07-08 14:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a way that turns them on during love making. Some like it soft and delicate others like it the tough bull riding stytle. The only thing i can tell you is if you don't like it you need to tell him. To me if he make love in 'hurtful ways" it does not sound safe. You may need to evaluate your relationship.
2006-07-08 14:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by vhat40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get out of that type of relationship, he's not treating you right, or with respect.
2006-07-08 14:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by Ron T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a doormat...you brought it on yourself.
Stand up for yourself and make him act right or put him to the curb!
2006-07-08 14:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys are just silly and rough like that ...if you don't like it say stop, i a 22 and my 24 year old boyfriend does wrestling moves on me!
2006-07-08 14:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This behavior is not normal, even for boys. GET OUT!
2006-07-08 14:50:53 · answer #11 · answered by forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋