I like my bestfriend but I don't know how to tell her how I feel for her,everytime I'am about to tell her she's tells me about how she's doing very well with her boyfriend.I saw her boyfirend cheating on her,but she didn't believe me because she just thinks that I want them to get separated!And that's not true!And her bf didn't cheated on her once but 3 times,what should I do?
2006-07-08 14:39:01 · 5 answers · asked by Dustin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She lives with me,and I had known her like 4 ever(second grade)sometimes she comes home crying don't know why she doesn't tell me!?But she still tells me that she's doing okay with her boyfriend!?
One time I was cleaning her room,and suddenly her journal falls open off the table...and I didn't read it...but while I was closing I saw my name(Dustin)and before was Love Dustin,Do you think she feels something for me but she fears to tell me just like me,what do you think?
2006-07-08 15:03:26 · update #1
Wow you seem like a really good friend. Sorry you have to sit back and watch the girl of your dream settle for less. I think you should just keep doing what your doing being ,being a good friend she's not ready to let her boyfriend go. You telling her he's cheating won't change a thing. She knows he's cheating that's why she says she doesn't believe you. It always hurts to know someone you love is cheating on you so give her some time. I think you should try dating more. Try to explore something different. Maybe she's waiting for you to find someone who thinks your great, then she'll miss a the things you use to do for her. Just maybe you'll get you wish. Good luck
2006-07-08 14:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i can tell you base on my experience is this. It is a woman that choose a man and not the other way wrong. Women are the chooser and it is not all the nonsense that a lot of us do that win them over.
if you are genuine in saying that her boyfriend is cheating on her and she still love him. Look for some one else as you may as well be wasting your time as there are other women out there. I don't believe in placing any woman on some pedestal unless you live with her to see her ways. Be careful in what you do and say and remember it is her choice as well as yours to move on and find some one that is better.
All you are doing right now is standing in some river and trying to change its course with your bare hands.
2006-07-08 21:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let her discover his infidelity on her own. If you tell her or try to show her you will end up being the bad guy in the end. You have to be patient and let her find out on her own, then you can be there to comfort her.
2006-07-08 21:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like that will never learn. Just find another friend to like.
2006-07-08 21:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a bad idea your friendship is better becouse if you tell her how you feel and if she does not feel the same kiss your friendship good bye it her life let her live it
2006-07-08 21:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by chris t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋