ok, i went to the pool the other day with my friends and these guys where staring at me and making some really rude...i mean really rude comments and out of nowhere this guy came up then grabbed my butt and then started massaging my boobs!!!! i reported it and he had to leave but his other buddies where trying to do the same thing to me! i mean i'm 16, and i like getting looked at by guys. but that was auwful!!!! has that ever happined to you and do you have any advice!! i was scared he was going to rape me!!!!! i punched him in the face to and ran!!!!
2006-07-08 14:37:32 · 15 answers · asked by inuyashabowes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and later i told my mom and she called the cops!!! hoped he got arrested
2006-07-08 14:41:37 · update #1
we told the pool and now they have gards around the pool. if anything happens to another person. the will go to jail right then
2006-07-08 14:45:58 · update #2
i'm a really good student at karate (black belt) and at judo. this guy was to strong!!!! and what my mom just told me..she just got a hold of the boys parents.. we are pressing charges
2006-07-08 14:48:38 · update #3
they same things happend to my friends!!! we where scared as hell....i was so scared i couldn't scream or move!!!
2006-07-08 15:07:33 · update #4
Oh my God hon! Men are crazy. I think you should learn some self defense, so you can protect yourself, and some friendly advise, don't go out by yourself, always let your parents know where you are going and with whom, if you have a cell always carry it on your person not in a bag but in a pocket in some clothing that you are wearing, carry a whistle, loud noises attract attention, nothing like that has ever happened to me, but i say be careful who you talk to, give info about yourself to and make sure that your friends are truly your friends, cause it sounds like someone set you up. hmm
2006-07-08 14:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that ever happens again, go and call the cops. That is not no little thing---that is just outright criminal. No one has the right to touch your body without your permission, NO ONE!!
If it is any possible, have a cell phone handy, so that you can call the cops yourself. Make sure that you know their phone number to the nearest station, because 911 often gets misdirected.
Also, you might consider going to a different pool. If something like this happened in a different environment such as work or school it would be considered sexual harrassment. In any case, you can press charges---but never, never punch, hit, or kick anyone for doing that. Even though you try to defend yourself, it is better to get the help of authorities, for these guys in groups can get nasty if they see you elsewhere....Good Luck
2006-07-08 14:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would've done the same as you! I am so sorry that you had to go through that! First question though, are you ok? Because if you need to talk to someone I am here! And for the time being, I advise you to take a guy friend or many other girl friends along, but most strongly advise you to take a guy friend.If you ever see these guys again, I would definetly call the police and file a report on sexual assault, or even do that now! I'm so sorry you had to go through that!
2006-07-08 14:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you experienced those rude guys. No girl should have to feel scared like you did. I hope you told your parents about the incident. What happened to you is against the law and your parents may want to consider legal action against the boys and the pool management. I recommend that you stay away from that place if the pool can't keep it safe for girls. I hope you know that you did nothing wrong...there are just creeps in the world.
2006-07-08 14:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Chainsawmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are being honest here...That is really messed up. THAT GUY and his buddies were wrong. AND you should have pressed charges. That is assault. My advice (sorry...im a guy), but don't go to that pool without "backup." Use the buddy system. Go with friends. And heck, take a self defense class this summer...good exercise, great self esteem builder and you can protect yourself from Jerks.
What the hell kind of pool is this anyway?
I cant freakin' believe that.
2006-07-08 14:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by Bruce B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where was you friends when this happend? When this guy first put his hands on you, you should of yell loudly and got everybody attention. When you go out with your friends stick together!!!There are some many things happending in this world, just do you recall about the young lady whom, was on her senior trip and was killed and the still trying to find who killed her. Then there was a young lady in NY that was out with her friends at some club and she left with out her friends and was killed, what I'm trying to say there is a lot of crazy people out here in this world so you have to be careful. And remember the golden rules when you out with you girlfriends"stick together and leave together" if you can get mase, keep it in your bag.
2006-07-08 15:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by JO`NAE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was so wrong for someone to do that to you. If you get these things a lot...i suggest maybe tame your outfits down a little bit....but regardless assert your right not to be treated nastily by any guy. If you can...try learning any form of martial arts for self-protection.Also take very good care of your reputation if you want to gain respect...
2006-07-08 14:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I hope after this incident you will never lie to your parents about where you're at and who you're going to be with.
I'm sorry that you had to deal with that and I hope somethign gets done and hope they had learned a lesson too, you girls are too young to be touched like that whether you're willing or not.
You did the right thing for reporting it, My uncle by marriage tried to rape me and I didn't turn it in, and he had raped others.
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2016-11-01 11:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by ai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive never been grabbed at .but i have been whistled at and its horrible because its so demeaning to girls ... im soo sorry that happened to you . Why do guys think they can get girls by grabbing them or whistling at them? But for advice .... i would take self defence classes and the next time anyone trys to grab you lay out your moves on them.. and beat them up..... just try to get away from them... im so sorry
2006-07-08 14:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by Riz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋