I’m close friends with a girl who I liked, so I told her 2 weeks ago. She responded by saying that she just wanted to be friends. But over the course of the last 2 weeks she has kissed me many times and we have cuddled together intimately in bed a lot.
She rings me 1st thing in the morning and last thing at night, and many times during the day. We go out for dinner and hang out together each day. She has told me everything about her! We talk for hours. She says she wants to meet my family and get along with them.
She still says we are friends. Says she has gotten hurt by previous boyfriends many times and not long ago and is scared of giving her heart away again. She still talks about her last boyfriend who hurt her badly – Basically used her and then suddenly stopped all contact with her!
What does this mean? Does she even like me? Am I being played for a fool and don’t see it?
2006-07-08 14:29:44 · 10 answers · asked by AskingQuestion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
just keep doing what your doing. you've almost got her just don't rush it.
2006-07-08 14:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Friendly Neighbor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she is just as confused as you are. Sounds like she is still not over her last situation and needs a friend more right now than anything. But when she is ready for something more she will more than likely look toward her "friends" first. Hang in there and be there for her show her you are willing to be around no matter what the circumstances. Good Luck
2006-07-08 21:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by angelinamitchell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well is she askin for lots of stuff....or money.....? if not than for right now your good. she needs the stability you are trying to give her, the emotional stability that is. she has been hurt and she has worries about future relationships. the best husband or boyfriend is the one who is your best friend, and thats what your giving her. just respect that she needs to sort this out on her own. keep doing what your doing...it sounds like this could possibly turn out better then you could even hope. this is how me and my husband started out, but on both sides...we were worried about the same things as you are and its the best thing i could ever have hoped for. all you have to do is show her that your not other guys. its hard for anyone to let go of that kind of hurt...so just give her time. this i just a "stage" once she sees that your for real and that you care, and she knows it in her heart, she'll be ready to go further. time is a universal remedy to almost everything...just sit tight and be patient..it sounds like thats what she really needs. i really hope this works out for both of you, she definately deserves someone who cares like you do, and it sounds like you deserve a good woman too, i have a feeling that youve been f*cked over too, or you probably wouldnt be asking this question. Sincerely good luck....if you wouldnt mind, let me know how this all plays out, thanks
2006-07-08 22:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me she really likes you and would like to be more than friends but is afraid to admitt her true feelings I would go alone with it alittle longer just to see she might open up to you,set a deadline and see,then if not start backing away and tell her you think you both should just stay friends but start seeing other people get her reaction to that.
2006-07-08 21:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by tubleweed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times girls trust guys more than girls she can tell u anything but maby she thinks if anything happened and use got together shes affriad tht it will rewin your friend ship but a think she just a friend dont take the risk it could rewin it . let her make the 1st move if she feels for u in tht way x
2006-07-08 21:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does but she isnt sure of it yet give her time and she'll let you know how she really feels about you dont rush her though cuz if she has just gotten out of a bad relationship its hard to trust a man again but make her feel like your not that man that your better than him and you wont hurt her like he did but just proove to her that you are a great guy
2006-07-08 21:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's playing with you she is just hurt and looking for some one to help her get though the hurt, but I wouldn't get to close with your heart because you don't want to be hurt either.
2006-07-08 22:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by sistercoolus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm..sound tough! maybe she likes you too but she's afraid that you're not that serious about her...my advise is to take her to a quiet place where there will be no disturbance of whatsoever...then tell her that you are serious about her...are you? and that you don't want to be just friends with her coz you really like her sooo much... tell her you know that she'd been hurt before and you don't want to hurt her like what his x-men did... tell her that it hurts you when she says that you're just friends coz you love her to be your girlfriend... well if she still says you're just friends, tell her that you like her for being sweet to you but she must not do it after all coz it only makes you fall deeply in love with her, but if you don't want her to stop being sweet to you , you better not say it..just enjoy the moment being in love....mmmm....
2006-07-08 21:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by shine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that she likes u very much...and hes afraid of engaging...for fear that relationship be like the previous ones.....
may be u should talk about that seriously to her....if it is a game then tell her game over ok
2006-07-08 21:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by rapstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I agree w/everyone above...give it some time, go with the flow...BUT HAVE A DEADLINE for yourself.
2006-07-08 21:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by Paige 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋