A little earlier this year I was "talking" to a great guy. It seemed like things were progressing wonderfully and then he cut me off cold turkey. Stopped calling me completely. Now i can't stop thinking about him and what could've went wrong. Help!
2006-07-08 14:23:11 · 12 answers · asked by lle_20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is your first mistake...don't overanalyze something that obviously has no rhyme or reason. Who knows? Who cares? You know you're great, his loss...move forward, never look back. I've been broken up with before a couple of times and guess what, they ALWAYS want me back.
2006-07-08 14:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by geniusH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate when something like this happens, because ur both seem to enjoy each other and then the phone calls stop. Well if u have his number or email u can contact him and ask what happen.
If he says he just wanted to move on then u do so too because he's not the only guy and if he feels this way ( screw him, his loss)
This is a big world and he's not the only guy, I'm sure theres another guy out there who would be more then happy to becme ur close friend.
2006-07-08 14:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships at times are a bit complicated. since there is not much i can say base on what you wrote. If this guy is single and not some married man etc........You might have some way to get in touch with him and try and talk things over.
If that don't work count your self lucky as it can turn out to be a blessing disguise for you............ Some times people come into our lives and we don't know the reason why when they leave us base on the way you describe your situation. Some times it is to bring us experience which we can use in a meaningful way in a better relationship. I had this experience were a woman came into my life and when she left me for another man. She left me with a wealth of experience that i use towards a better relationship and I'm happy for it. At the time i was sad, but right now I'm happy for it.
2006-07-08 14:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had that happen later on in life i asked him and this what he had to say:him:i got depressed and **** and did not want to bring u down!!!
him: no i never wanted to be just friends!!! but i was not getting involved to u lived here
me:thats what friends and g/fs and...almost g/fs are for! to help you through the bad times...you never told me that i thought you lost interest or something thats why i moved on
him:'nope!!!
me:why didn't you say something
him: just so u are happy
who knows maybe it's something similiar?
2006-07-08 14:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by Kiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your wasting your time...and its probably only that you need some closure. heres what you do, write a letter to him, explain that you dont understand what happened, and that its upset you greatly. tell him that unless he s still into starting something that this is goodbye. most people ache over past relationships because they didnt get the closure they needed. trust me it can work wonders.
2006-07-08 14:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, try to call him up and ask him to eat out coz you're celebrating something..(just think of anything to celebrate ok?) if he wants to see you then probably he'll go with you but if he said no then maybe you have to move on now... there are a lot of guys out there honey!!!
2006-07-08 14:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by shine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well may be he though he could start a realionship with you
but then he change his mind because may be a pass lover came back in his life that could be one of the reason
2006-07-08 14:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me that he got cold feet and is afraid to get close to you.cause if he was really a good friend to begein with he would have keep on talking to you know.
2006-07-08 14:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to antoher guy. I think once you replace the guy, you'll start thinking about the new one.
2006-07-08 14:26:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him Its the only way you will ever know.
2006-07-08 14:25:12 · answer #10 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋