My boyfriend wants us to start swinging. I told him I'll think about it but he keeps pressuring me. I would consider it, but I don't like the fact that it is so important to him. It has become a daily conversation with us and it is driving me crazy. What should I do?
2006-07-08 14:22:19 · 13 answers · asked by Tzipor 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do anything that will make you uncomfortable. If he keeps pressuring you despite your discomfort, he doesn't respect your wishes OR you.
You don't have to stay with someone who wants to sleep with other people if you don't want to.
2006-07-08 14:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be about you, and if you're comfortable and if he's pressuring you that's a very bad sign. If I were you I'd tell him that I'd like to swing, but I'll do it by myself.
2006-07-08 14:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by Ring Ring Ring Bananaphone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you shouldn't let your boy pressure you into swinging... If you decide you're comfortable then go check out a swingers club. That should help make up your mind.
2006-07-08 14:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Zach T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm i would try it but 1st ask him 2 things, 1-why is is so important to him and 2-if you don't will he leave you. If the answers are not what you want then don't. Also if you get jealose easyily then don't
2006-07-08 14:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by cheerbabe104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the playground and give it a try, if you don't like swinging tell yr boyfriend no more! easy as falling off a swing wasn't it?
2006-07-08 14:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by matt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your boyfriend wants it more than you? If your unsure or uncomfortable with the idea, then don't do it. Just remember, could you accept the idea that another woman is pleasing your boyfriend?
2006-07-08 14:28:10 · answer #6 · answered by tim b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are comfortable with it, why not.
These days it is very common.
My cousin and her husband do it, and they love it.
There definitely has to be boundaries.
Discuss what is acceptable and what is not.
But don't do it if you are not comfortable.
Let him know how you feel, and expect him to respect your choice.
If you say no, and he keeps it up...than it's probably time to move on.
Good luck!
Have fun!
2006-07-08 14:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plz understand that your sex life with ur bf is getting dried. There is no spice in your sex life due to which he is asking for swing.
SInce he has u besides u, he is using u to hoook-on with other ladies.
2006-07-08 15:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either swing or pack. he is not satisfied by you or just with you he want his cake and eat it too. he wants to have you his steady GF and have sex with other women. He is not going to change
2006-07-08 14:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to do it,tell him NO.He may leave but you will be better off.
2006-07-08 14:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋