girls, what would u do if .........?

Question

the one u love asked u to have love(sex) with him

Answer 1

all depends on age and if you're ready....

don't be having sex if your still in school

not kool, but if you love him... like LOVE him... like you couldn't live without him AND are age appropriate

yes!

Answer 2

Do only what your comfertable with. Having sex can be a big deal, there are several things to consider. STD's, Pregnancy, Rape, and many other equally disturbing things.

On the other note though, having experienced sex i can not find anything equivelant to it. It is by far and away among the most amazing things this world can offer.

Ask yourself if your comfertable having sex with him, If you struggle to answer even a moment DONT DO IT! if he truly loves you he will respect that you are not ready, if he gets stupid and leaves then you have thankfully removed what could have been a really ugly relationship from continueing.

Choices,
Silence

Answer 3

This definatly depends on how old you are. I figure no is the right answer for you. If he insists that having sex is the only way to show him that you love him, then he is putting you under pressure. He just wants sex.
You can say to him that if he truely loves you ,then he can wait until you are older and when the time is right.

Some boys/men will say or do anything to get into a girls pants.
Be wise.

Answer 4

It depends... If i have been considering that possibility then I would have sex with him. But if I don't want and never though about it until he mentioned it then i would never ever do it for the pressure because someone that loves u shouldn't being forcing u to do something hat u don't want. And also u should stand for yourself and make him respect you!

Answer 5

Are you 12 or 25? Part of the answer goes with the territory. Have it too young and you will probably regret it later for soooo many reasons. Also a much greater chance of cervical cancer with early sex.

Answer 6

Dose he just want the sex and not you? Is he taking advantage of the fact you like him to get sex? Or are you in love and ready to have sex? Or are you okay with a hot booty call?

Answer 7

OK well if you both are in love really for really real love then go a head but if you love him and you know for damn sure he does no t love you the same way in return, dont do anything

Answer 8

Depends on how I felt about him. Someone once told me that once you share yourself with someone; they as well as you take a piece of each other when you share your bodies. After hearing this I came to the realization that it is true, so unless you want this person to have a piece of you then don't share. Also if you give too much away then there is nothing left after a few too many shares. Hope this makes sense.

Answer 9

If I was old enough and responsible enough to be engaging in sex, and I was attracted enough to this person to desire to have sex with him...then I'd have sex with him...

However, I don't know your age, your maturity, your sexual experience, or if you are ready to deal with protecting yourself from STDs, pregnancy, or would you be able to cope with either if your protection method failed?

It's much more than a simple issue of "we love each other, we want to have sex"...

Answer 10

I would see if he really loved me. And if i decided to sleep with him I would definitely get a couples Aids test , and test for other STD. So be careful make sure to get tested together. And don't fall for any excuse for why he can't do that. Don't rush, better when married anyway.