for a short time now i have been thinking about having sex with one of my boyfreind's freinds. i have no desire to act on it because of the fact that i have actually have had sex with this person alooooong time ago. it was at least a year before i met my boyfreind and i had no clue they were friends. anyway, i know i dont want to have sex with this guy again or any other guy to that matter. and it is awfully ackward being around all of them but they all seem real cool. am i strange or what? im madly in love but this is odd. we have been together almost two years what is wrong with me?
2006-07-08 13:55:36 · 16 answers · asked by danielle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he knows we were together that long time ago, but its all water under the bridge to them both. they are just still as close as they were before i am the odd one i guess?
2006-07-08 14:03:10 · update #1
You need to be really careful here. Does your current boyfriend know about your past with his friend? If not you are walking through a minefield. You better let him know in a hurry, or the other guy might. Other than that, being around people that you had sex with before will definitely make you think about it again, not that you would necessarily act on it. Just remember, there is a reason you are not with that guy and you ARE with the guy you love, and make sure he knows it if you decide to tell him the truth.
2006-07-08 14:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by grin900 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you ... as long as this just remains a private fantasy...(which by the way half the world now knows) lol, just never let your bf or the other guy know your yahoo account handle now !!!!
2006-07-08 21:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a Jerry Springer show in the makings!!!
2006-07-08 20:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by bren_jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can fantasize about ANY guy you want just be VERY careful while you are making decisions, I don't think you really want to have sex with this guy, you just need to employ your fantasies with your boyfriend. Don't screw things up
2006-07-08 21:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be having thoughts about having sex about your b/f's friends. Its kind of like mind cheating. Even thinking about it is wrong.
Talk to your bf.....
2006-07-08 20:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by jbrez9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with THINKING about sexing someone else. We all have fantasies. Just don't act on it.
2006-07-08 20:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a whore! or at least on the verge of becoming one. you need to but yourself in check. hell, go get some strange!
2006-07-08 21:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by info2know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nuthin wrong wid dat..juzz dont take any wrong step to hurt ur boyfriend...=\
2006-07-08 20:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ AnGeL ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU NEED TO JUST KEEP YOUR EYES AND YOUR PUSSY TO YOUR MAN AND DON'T THINK ABOUT YA MANS FRIENDS IT WILL HURT YOU IN THE LONG RUN!!!
2006-07-08 20:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by miss cece 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural to be attracted to someone enough that u fantasise about them.
2006-07-08 20:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋