Lately my boyfriend has been telling me that I'm beautiful, or the most prettiest woman he's ever seen, and I'm curious, is he just saying it so he can have sex with me? Everytime I ask him, he says he's telling the truth, but it ony makes me wonder if it's more of a lie.
2006-07-08 13:40:21 · 12 answers · asked by yaseppochi_hime 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't question it, just be flattered and take the comments. Come on every girls loves it when her man feels that way about her. Remember if a guy is just saying these things for sex he wouldn't be dating you, he would be out with the easy girls. So he loves you and is telling you what comes to his mind when he sees you. And also you don't have to sleep with him unless you want to so even if he is saying these comments that shouldn't be the reason why you will have sex with him.
2006-07-08 13:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Ashlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be either one. It could be that he's wanted to tell you for a while, but wasn't able to say it until now. If you really want to find out, and you aren't ready for sex yet, casually bring up the subject and say you won't be ready for that for a few more months. See if the compliments stop.
2006-07-08 20:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether he's telling the truth or not doesnt matter. what matters is it's his way of making you feel good. c'mon who would want to hear "next to carmon electra, my 2nd grade teacher, and this girl i saw in radioshack, youre the hottest girl i've ever seen." beauty is in the eye of the beholder. maby he does think youre the most beautiful girl ever. OR maby he like's making you feel better about yourself. And what is better him thinking your the prettiest girl ever or the fact that he likes making you feel better about you?
2006-07-08 20:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by everett k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.....its really nice that he is saying these things to you, and you should just sit back, relax and eat it up, but if by chance he does ask you for sex and your not ready then you need to confront him. Because saying those things in order to get something in return is just plain mean.
2006-07-08 20:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by jbrez9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are like that its always hard to tell if their being sincere. Sometimes you just know and sometimes you don't. My guess is if he is alot older than you he wants sex. But for anyone it will be hard to be sure. Just sit him down ad talk about it. Boys can be difficult. I think that you should just trust your heart. (and remeber not all things that look appetizing are)
2006-07-08 20:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by diamonds-are-forever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the times I've said that I meant it...but with the woman I am with now I mean it more than I ever have, she just blows me away!
So, am I lying?
2006-07-08 20:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Captain Don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your question is "My boyfriend is complimenting me, does he just want sex?"
I think more information would be needed for this to be answered accurately.
2006-07-08 20:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a lie... they just wanna have sex
guys are liars
all of them
but then again women dont always say the whole truth...
2006-07-08 20:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by irena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby you have to learn how to take a compliment. He's trying to be sweet. That doesn't mean he is trying to get in your pants.
2006-07-08 21:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by moniq118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does mean it... I do not think that is pressure. If he says things like "Your body is bangin'" or stuff like that then maybe. Just go slow and see where it goes.
2006-07-08 20:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by Meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋