I don't really want to get involved because I know that can get messy, but it hurts me that they don't communicate. They have each confided in me and both have valid points, but they both are so stubborn. So far I haven't said anything to either of them, but I know they are both hurting. The younger one just had a baby and the older one hasn't even called her to congratulate her.
2006-07-08 13:22:35 · 10 answers · asked by wendygirl1000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe they just want you to listen instead of getting involved. Women are known to do that sometime.... they simply want someone to simply listen to them not necessarily give them the answer or take any action whatsoever........... I will never figure out women but I am beginning to understand them a little better.....
2006-07-08 13:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by Tony A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds alot like me and my sisters. The best thing I can tell you to do before you get caught in the middle is pray about it. If you really find a good answer to this question please let me know so maybe I can do something with my sisters. Of course I have tried the counseling route but if they don't want to go its not much you can do.Good Luck with your situation.
2006-07-08 20:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to get involved then stay out of it. Let nature run it's course and eventually the two sisters will make up and talk to each other once again.
2006-07-08 20:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by James B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. They are both adults, and responsible for themselves. Whatever is wrong between them can only be fixed by them. Sometimes people do things that can't be fixed. This may be one of those times. There isn't always a good answer.
2006-07-15 12:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the park and sit down one at a time down and explain just how you feel, be honest to both of them. Let them know that you are family and family will fight, but as a family we must forgive and keep loving one another. I pray that the love comes back to all of you again.
2006-07-08 20:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to stay out of it because otherwise they'll want you to pick a side and that will only cause more problems. Unless whatever they're fighting about has anything to do with you, it's best to let them work it out on their own.
2006-07-08 20:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it! Do not get involved. They need to work it out for themselves. You stand to get caught in the middle otherwise.
2006-07-08 20:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by lovin'life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray that God will soften their hearts, Pray that God will give you wisdom, pray that God will give you the words to say at the right times, and silence at the right times.
2006-07-08 20:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by cherylbab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the children fight amongst themselves. You will only be fodder.
2006-07-08 20:24:16 · answer #9 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them to stop fighting that it hurting you inside. there stop fighting for you.
2006-07-08 20:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by Britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋