I need help...How do I get over my ex..?

Question

every little thing that i see hear or smell makes me think of my ex... I CANNOT GET HIM OUT OF MY HEAD....it might help if he had a reason as to why he broke up with me but he didnt and every time i ask him about it he changes the subject and trust me ive asked him plenty of times... and the one guy that I do like has a girlfriend so i dont know what to do please help me and give me some advice...thanks

Answer 1

when you find out let me know one day at a time

Answer 2

Unfortunately, time and distance are really the only ways to get over an ex. If he broke up with you and won't give you a reason, then hounding him for one is not going to help the situation. Try cutting him out of your life to begin with. I'm not saying to ignore him if he should walk by or ask you a question, but don't seek him out to start up a conversation. Even if he's the only thing you can think about for days on end, don't let yourself fall back into your old pattern. Start spending more time with your friends, or take up a new hobby. Do anything you can to get your mind off him. It may take awhile, but trust me, it'll happen. Before you know it, he'll be wondering why he ever broke up with you, and you'll be wondering what you ever saw in him.

Answer 3

The first question you must ask yourself: "Do I want to know the rael truth and am I ready to accept it, bad or good?"

He may not want to hurt your feelings or maybe it's something he's dealing with and not ready to tell you.

The best advice I can give you is to leave him be for a while and let him, in time, tell you why.

Don't press it. I know. I know. Your getting killed inside, but let it go and the answer that you seek, will be there in a moment.

In the meantime, occupy yourself with somehing that take up your time so you won't have to get torn apart.

Answer 4

Ok, looks like you're in a bit of a problem, here, but don't worry, it's not a big deal. All that you have to do is fall in love with someone, make sure that the person is relatively different than youe ex, good luck!!!

Answer 5

I have the same problem dear and I asked the same question yesterday. I know what you're going trough, and I'm not just going to tell you to move on. A lot of people told me time, and I'm waiting for that time. If you want to talk you can IM me or e-mail me @princess987mn. Good luck

Answer 6

Time heals all wounds. As for getting over your ex, depending on how long you were together and how good the relationship was, you may NEVER get over him, you just have to suppress the feelings and go on with you life. Have your trip down memory lane from time to time, but know that it is just a trip.

Answer 7

First of all, stop talking to your ex. If he won't explain himself to you, then there is no reason for you to be wasting your time hanging around him, this will do nothing for you except cause more emotional hurt. Beyond that, just try and meet new people, get on with you life.

Answer 8

Time..... It will take time to get him out of your head. DO NOT carry your emotional baggage from your last relationship into the next one. Its not fair to the person that you're going to be with.

Answer 9

Only one way to get over him..... never speak to him, never speak of him, never listen about him. Every time you think about him think of the worse moments you two had together and hang on to that thought. Its that simple! You will be over him in a week!

Answer 10

If your feelings are as strong for him as you say they are, there is only one help. Time. It will take time for you to get over your ex and meet someone else. Just remember, its his lose, not yours.