I am a 20yr old female and I'm still a virgin. I used to believe that I'd to be married before I had sex. I still kind of do, but I'm beginning to think I'd be open to having it before- like if I was seriously in love and secure about it. Of course I wouldn't have meaningless sex or anything, it'd have to be a serious relationship. These are just thoughts though. I'm not at that stage in my life where I'm thinking about when, where, who, and how I'm going to lose my virginity- sex isn't really on my radar right now.
2006-07-12 23:39:05
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answered by Temperance 4
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Well there are a lot of people who are afraid to admit being a virgin. But I am 18 year old male who has saved himself for his future wife. I think it is a memorable moment when both husband and wife lose it to each other.
Boys at the high school are hormonally immature, unlike women who hit puberty earlier.
I believe you are doing the right thing, nomatter what anyone says, and on you honeymoon you'll be with the one you will love forever and you'll both be glad that you saved yourself for him. It would make him feel all that more important to you. And it also says something about your character, that your stronger than peer pressure and are in control of your life.
Way to go many people are proud of you and what you have done.
Forest
2006-07-08 19:40:56
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answered by Forest 1
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I, like you, am in high school and I'm proudly a virgin. there is nothing wrong with waiting until marrige to have sex. that is what i plan to do. if people in school say that virgins are losers, they are stupid. besides you should save sex for that one special person and also, as you probably know for sex ed, you can get STD's and possibably get pregnant when not wanted. anyway, no you are not the only one. (there are probably some who are virgins but just don't want to admit it because they think it is cool to have sex. well it's not) Be proud to be a virgin. there is nothing wrong with that!
2006-07-08 19:31:25
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answered by here_2_help 1
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First I'm Still a virgin I'm in my 30s. Second don't listen to what high school kids say to you I had the same problems I had kids telling the same thing but I'm Glad didn't Listen I see some of these people/ friends still single and haven't been married but they have kids and they now say to me me. They Should of waited. Third you should wait until you married or until your ready.
2006-07-08 19:36:10
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answered by Anonymous
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I have never had sex, mostly cuz im lds, BUT also because, I still want to be a virgin for my husband, and i say being a virgin is COOL,
2006-07-08 19:27:28
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answered by Anonymous
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You are definitely not alone even if some can try and make you feel that way at times.
Stick to your values and commitements and save yourself for your future husband. Anything less is never worth what you loose.
Take care, hang in there, and stay strong. ((hugs))
God bless :)
2006-07-08 19:32:27
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answered by a soldier's dolphin 2
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Well everyone is different. Everyone has sex at different times. Some later than others. But don't worry, there are plenty of ppl who are like you or older than you who haven't had sex either.
2006-07-08 19:26:37
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answered by Fallen Angel 3
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Yes im a virgin 20 yr old guy here.
We all have a different reason to why we are.
2006-07-08 19:31:18
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answered by mrk_choice 1
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you sound a bit conceited telling everyone on here that boys tell you that you are too cute to be a virgin. so what?? who cares? don't listen to them. when you're ready, good for you.
there are plenty of people that wait.
2006-07-08 19:26:44
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answered by lu 2
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i'm a virgin a proud of it and i'm also 16 so don't worry about it it will happen some day
2006-07-08 19:28:28
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answered by Anonymous
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