My best friend Mark has unfortunately fallen hard in love with this tramp to the point he's blind. I've caught her flirting or acting flirtatious towards other guys AND have told Mark all about it to no avail. He told me less than a month ago point blank he wasn't interested in hearing anymore "unsolicited criticism" about his woman. When he was willing to hear me out, he always comes up with some dimwitted lamebrain reason to justify outrageous behavior while around some other guys. Here's my favorite lame-o excuse: "Oh, that's just how women are. Always trying to make their man jealous!" I agree that some women (keyword "some") do do that, BUT they deliberately do it when the man they're trying to make jealous is around. Otherwise she's just trying to play the field. Am I right? Now, 2 days ago Mark tells me to take her to go see a movie because she couldn't unsterstand he had to work very early in the moring. So I took her. I regret it! When dropping her off she tried to kiss me!!!
2006-07-08 12:07:57 · 12 answers · asked by butt_phucker11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to stay friends with him, then keep your distance from her, including personal favors that puts you alone with her. As someone else said, if you keep warning him especially after he has already told you he doesn't want to hear anymore things about her, it might appear that you are trying to break them up, and he will probably choose her. Let him find out the hard way. You will still be his friend who he will reconcile with. You wont even have to tell him "I told you so."
2006-07-08 12:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all that woman is a tramp..... She's cheating and if oure friend can't see that he is so dumb...... well there will be complications if u tell that to ur friend becoz of how he feels about her.... well wait around and see their relationship but i can tell u myself there will be complications bcoz the woman is a slut...... just stand clear for a while and when there is an oportunity that the guys can't take it anymore...... tell him..... or videotape the girl's sluttiness and show it to him...... or just don't simply care because he's relationships with women doesn't really concern you....... : D
2006-07-08 12:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given the history, at this point he'll think you were just trying to break them up and he'll think you are lying or you came on to her first just to see what she would do and to tell him. This is not your lesson to learn, he has to learn the hard way. Right now you may have to step aside and let him make a fool of himself. But as his best friend, when if and when it's over, just be there for support.
2006-07-08 12:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't tell him. Chances are he's not going to believe you. If you put him in the position of having to make a choice between the two of you, you'll more than likely lose.
2006-07-08 12:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss is which way friendly pollito type of kiss or a French long tongue type kiss. Unless its the latter don't worry about it. My best friends wife as kissed me pollito several times it means nothing but never french style.
2006-07-08 12:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Neilman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre holding back your feelings cuz youre uncertain that you want to completely commit to her. you know that is the kind of relationship that she wants. that's why youre not upfront with her. you say 'i love you' but you two both say it to each other. if you want each other, then act like it. good luck
2016-03-26 21:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep out of it
keep her at a distance but let your friend learn for himself
just be there to pick up the pieces
if you keep trying he will turn the blame onto you
2006-07-08 12:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell first that you really like this girl instead of saying anything happen (dont let him know anything happened and he might let her gofor you). and if that don't work find a girl that'll he be attracted to and he start liking her and then you switch.
2006-07-08 12:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by wyanehaltcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't make your friend see that she a...well anyway, just let him find out for himself and next time your friend asks you a fav to take his girl out ...just say no, sorry I can't.
2006-07-08 13:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth.
2006-07-08 12:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by Elaine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋