i feel rejected and lonley, and thinking dispairing things. have i got a serious mental disorder?

Question

im 29 and at the moment tryin to cope with lonliness and rejection. it seems like every girl i approach, on the net, if i make a proposal. or at the gym where ive been goin for a few weeks now, i get turned down, nobody wants me. i met 2 girls, 1 at the gym one on the net, i thought i was getting along ok with the one i met at the gym, we exchanged phone numbers, we phoned each other a couple of times, last night i asked if she had a boyfriend, she said, she did have but not at the moment & that it was a long story, so i asked her out, like proposed,& she suddenly stopped texting me. i phoned her today she said there was someone there & she couldnt talk. the girl on the net doesnt *** online to speak to me no more. double wammy. i have mental health probs that ive had since 15, high anxiety, panic attacks, no self esteem, but my main prob is anger. and i dont go out anymore, because it seems to build up inside me, lookin at people, feeling angry at them & i get scared i could have a...

i get scared that with my anger and inner rage that builds up, i could have a disorder that cant be cured so i wont be able to live my life...?

Answer 1

Join the service. Use some of that anger for a good use. Buy yourself a quality blowup doll. Most women are a pain in the *** anyway, particularly American. Check online for a foriegn chick. MANY would be delighted to here from or connect with an AMERICAN DUDE!!!!

Answer 2

Hey buddy brace up.
First thing.. meeting a girl on net is not a really good idea.
And second of all you seem really upset about rejection. Lighten up! this world isn't fair you have to look for someone outside the box, righ now you set your self some limits like .."meeting girls on-line". you should hang out at more places, meet people in real places.Like parties, beaches, sign up for rafting and more! get your self out there where there is more opportunity for you to meet tons of people! I am sure that you do not have no mental disorder forget about rejection take your mind of it, and do something that you always wanted to do, I am telling you meeting people will be more successful if you put your self first in doing what you like.
Don't stress, do parties, or go to parties

Answer 3

perhaps you are bipolar?Are you currently on medication and seeing a therapist?That might help a lot. And as for the women, how long do you wait before you propose? Mybe you should try dating for a longer period of time before you propose.And just keep your chin up. Those other girls before just weren't the right girl. Keep trying.I know it seems hard, but what else are you going to do?Giving up will only make you feel worse im sure.

Answer 4

This is something you should talk to your doctor about. If it is a mental disorder, there's medication to help. Also for the anger, you could try some anger management classes.
As for the ladies, don't worry about them! I think you should focus more on yourself and YOUR life--try to get things in order before starting a relationship. I'm sure you've heard it before--you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else!!
1st step--talk to your doctor or counselor.
Best of luck to you! ☺

Answer 5

We can move out of the dispair if we decide to. Go to JoyceMyer.com and see her messages for the week and read her magazine. She speaks directly to the negative thought life we have and how to overcome it. We can do it if we decide. I have to do it too.

Answer 6

ask a doctor... it seems like yes to me, but I;m not a doctor either you could have something as simple to fix as a hormonal imbalance.

Answer 7

Why would someone want to go out with you?

Answer 8

this sounds like depression to me

Answer 9

PRAY ABOUT IT-GO TO CHURCH! THERE ARE PEOPLE WAITING TO TALK TO YOU AND BE YOUR FRIEND.