My boss who is 33 recently left the company.Theres always been something special between us and he's admitted his feelings for me.I feel exactly the same for him but he lives nearly 200 miles away and theres a rather large age gap between us!I'm not sure a long distance relationship would work or if he would remain faithful!Please help people!?!What should i do!?!Should i act on impulse or think logically and ignore my feelings?
2006-07-08 11:37:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not married.We spent all day everyday together for a year and i was gutted when he told me he was moving 200 miles away!He helped me through some bad times (with my ex boyf).He means the world to me and i can't imagine my life without him in it!!!!We speak everyday via emails, texts and phone calls.Maybe its best if we stay friends and ignore our feelings for each other!?!
2006-07-08 12:06:16 · update #1
It sounds like you're interested, but you keep thinking of excuses to not take a chance. Why not throw all the excuses out the window and just give it a shot. There are a million reasons why any relationship may not work out, but if you always listen to them, you'll always be alone.
If you don't take a chance, you'll always wonder what would have happened.
Good luck, hon! :-)
2006-07-08 11:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by Serenity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think logically and ignore your feelings. Long distance relationships do not last, unless you had something solid before to build on.
I would just go on with my life.
What is the large age gap? You must be younger to be asking such a question?
And if you are younger, there are a lot more men out there you will run into, who are much more suited to you?
P.S.S. I hope you are over 21.
2006-07-08 11:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Seeking 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, your boss is going to ascertain or maybe as he does, it isn't any longer going to be particularly. I propose that you flow on and get yet another interest....purely get as a procedures away as plausible from this mess you've created. Come on brother, why may you intervene with a wedding ceremony. there is a great number of chicks obtainable waiting for you. :-0 good success!
2016-11-30 21:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thers nothing wrong 2 experience things but i doubt it wud work. according 2 me,99.9% its just sex 4 him, but i cud be wrong. if theres large age gap, i wud understand ur about late 20s n ur got ur whole life in front of u, so stop tinking aout stupid things like this n go out n am sure u will find someone much betta than the fat old bosssing boss.
2006-07-08 11:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He used to be your boss I just think it's a conflict of interest and yes he's a bit far away for a real relationship.
2006-07-08 11:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by chariot804 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really got deep feelings for him then, go ahead. but then again it don't seem like a good idea. it you already having thoughts about him being faithful, and y'all not even together yet, so shouldn't get involved. just be good friends.
2006-07-08 11:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by KEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you don't work with him anymore, and as you haven't mentioned that he is married, I would do it if you really want him. Life is too short to have regrets.
2006-07-08 11:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. I only think you should if you really, really, really, really, really love him. But unless not, you shouldn't. I think people should only sleep with that special person only.
I hope my advice helps.
2006-07-08 11:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it!!!! and if u get caught tell them the devil told u to do it!!
2006-07-08 11:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by BOO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you *** and work for me?
2006-07-08 12:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by pete 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋