i am 17 and i love my bf and i hope fiance' and i want to make our fiftyth date special should i have sex wit him
2006-07-08 11:27:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, wait until you're his wife. It will be a holy and righteous act of love then, with God's blessing. It'll mean a thousand times more to both of you.
2006-07-08 11:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a tough question for any adult to answer. If you want to do it for the fun of it, you are old enough to make that decision yourself, but don't make him your whole life. You're not ready to commit to a long term emotional relationship. I can tell you in the long run, however, you don't want to even begin to think about marriage until you are 28 or even 30. I know how much passion you must feel for even considering this, but try for a moment thinking with your head. You are only seventeen. You may think your all grown up but you haven't even begun to experience everything this world has to offer. As you grow older your values will change. What you want now, is not necessarily want you will want when you're 35. When you're 35, what you want won't be what you want when you're 50. All I can say is have fun when you can and don't take everything so seriously. Please at least take the necessary precautions to avoid being burdened with a child at your age. Now there's something you're not ready for.
2006-07-08 18:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by Don S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complicated question.
I know a lot of the religious and conservative people (of which I generally consider myself a party) are just going to say, "No", but...
If you feel comfortable with him and the idea of having sex with him, and...
You love him and he loves you, and...
You are confident that he and you will be consistantly responsible in practicing safe sex (every time, no exceptions, not even once), and...
You are confident that should an "accident" happen, that he will support you and your child forever, and...
Actually, if you can answer all those other questions with confidence, you are more "ready" to have sex than a LOT of people much older than you.
It can be hard to decide these things objectively, because you are emotionally involved (and hormones make people a little nutty). Talk about this with your boyfriend.
Lastly, I reiterate over and over and over again... condoms. Condoms. Condoms. Condoms. Condoms. Condoms. Condoms. Always always always always always.
2006-07-08 18:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jimee77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look most important your 17 worrie about getting a carrer for your self. if your gonna have sex make sure you wear a condom dont trow your life away (pregnant) and trust me his not husband material because his to young for a serious comitted relationship. that means setting his friends to the side for his entire life. now you do me a big favor listen to http://www.blowmeuptom.com/ from 3 to 7 pacific time just give him two weeks to learn how a man thinks and woman think.
2006-07-08 18:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by mrwadner05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why yes, 5 or 6 or 10 times in the same night. And you should pay for the motel room to. I always hated it when a girl let me have her for the first time and didn't pay for the motel room.
2006-07-08 18:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by meimmoody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the f*** is your prob.please get a life u decide if u want to or not but dint ask me that idiotic question and honey wait till u are 21 or older u are much to young take it from an ed vice colonist
2006-07-08 18:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by chick flick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once read: ' I was worried about my boyfriend getting me pregnant, but he gave me aids'
Only do it if you are ready. Keep in mind once you start you can't stop. If you really wants him to marry you, at least do it for your engagement to seal the deal. Because why buy the cow when the milk is free?
2006-07-08 18:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby Grl, don't do it cause it ain't worth it, u want to make it special then do something different b sides SEX. If he want 2 marry u then he will marry u w/o having sex. That's REAL!!!!
2006-07-08 18:34:37 · answer #8 · answered by missie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you really want to. Don't do it just because you think its about time. Do it because you really really want to. And even then you should really think it over because it can be something you will regret later on.
Keep in mind you are very young and, although it sounds cruel and you won't believe me, you probably aren't going to be with this guy forever.
2006-07-08 18:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by TiFFeRz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this answer is even coming from a guy wait. Its worth waiting for both of you. If you are asking this question its not time and you know it. Wait until you get married its worth it trust me you never know whats going to happen its better to be safe than sorry even for the guy its better to wait.
2006-07-08 18:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by anewcreation_84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋