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I feel lonely. I see guys who have beauty girlfriends that I know I look better than. I admit, I am a little scared to ask a girl out. The ones I have summoned courage to ask out, told me that they will go out with me only to tell me that they are seeing someone. I tried clubbing/bar scene, but didn't seem to lke it. I don't know is something wrong with me? I can't seem to understand. I am 28yrs and I still don't have a girlfriend. I am not so desperate, but I am getting very concerned now more than ever. Any suggestions from the nice well meaning yahoo users? Thanks

2006-07-08 11:14:50 · 12 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

12 answers

Don't sweat it. Don't look for love, let it come to you :) A good friend of mine was 35, a good looking Dr. who just couldn't find anyone. He seriously wanted to just get married and unlike you WAS DESPERATE! He met a girl through a friend and 8months later they married!!!! To top it off, she's quite the hottie with a great career! When I stopped "looking" I also found my fiance :)

Just be PATIENT, and don't depend on a bar to meet a girl. Have you ever tried speed dating or internet dating? Quite a few of my friends met their partners that way.

Good luck!

2006-07-08 11:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hi there. It sounds like you do not have much self-esteem. You admit that you are scared to aska girl out. Why are you scared? She can sense that. And it shows that you don't have enough self-confidence and women don't like that. I'm sure you must have a lot of great qualities, so maybe you need to remind your self of all the reasons why you would make a great boyfriend or lover to some lucky lady. Be confident and more sure of yourself. Good things will follow...

2006-07-08 18:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by shawnakitty25 1 · 0 0

Dude, I know how you feel. I was also in your situation until I read this book: "How to talk to anyone" by Leil Lowndes (ISBN: 007141858). As Larry King said about this book, "You'll not only break the ice, you'll melt it away with your new skills" that you will develop once you finish reading this book. Now I have awesome friends, talk like a VIP would, and can get almost any women. TRUST ME ON THIS!!!

2006-07-08 18:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by Tony Walls 3 · 0 0

dude, im almost 25 and i see the same thing here. totally ugly guys with really beautiful girlfriends. i better looking then most these guys yet i havent had a relationship in 6yrs. im guessing your a decent guy. me too. nice guys always finish last. i wish i had an answer to this question, cause if i did, i wouldnt be in the same boat as you.

2006-07-08 18:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by whatbumpnname 1 · 0 0

1) have you every seen a vigina?
2) do you come from a single mother house?
3)lonely?
Look you need to be a man stop acting like a pussy. you need to start acting like the biggest jerk ther is if ever ever you wanna get some tail. this girls you go out with do they ever tell you how big a ahole there b/f are but yet they still bang them every night or there booty call. do your self the biggest biggest favor and listen to this man he will change you thoughts about women teach you how to treat women and most important the shortest distance from point A (meeting women) to point B( banging the brains out of her) http://www.blowmeuptom.com/ from 3 to 7 pacific time especially thursday its 101 leykis. let me know how it goes ok be man for gods sake. "I feel lonely" pussy!!!

2006-07-08 18:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by mrwadner05 2 · 0 0

I don't have alot of advice for this..but don't give up. The "ocean" is huge and there are plenty of "fish" in it. So it just takes time to find someone that is good for you.

2006-07-08 18:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0 0

Here's a website that you might want to try..I does cost a little bit of money but well worth it...Eharmony.com...it's a dating website..there's other like Perfectmatch.com or Match.com..
good luck in your search...

2006-07-08 18:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by wildleo129 2 · 0 0

Ok, you are dating! try looking in front of you! open your eyes,and your mind she is standing right there. She will be the one you never thought of dating.By the way, you always have family you are never alone.

2006-07-08 18:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by echochat40 2 · 0 0

dude i got the same thing but im 14 so i have alot of time left

2006-07-08 18:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

use a dating website...or atleast find some new girls from places you haven't seen,like a new city or town....from work or at a mall

2006-07-08 18:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by rosy 2 · 0 0

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