i asked this question many weeks ago about the lady who cuts my hair we have been friends ( we dont go anywhere together though) for several years. well i did give her a pick me up card and asked to go to lunch as friends and then she acted rather distant so i asked the ladies on here and they responded well but now a new twist today i saw her got my hair cut and pointedly asked her hey did my card or the invite to lunch offend you or make u uncomfortable? she said no and then changed the subject whats up her? you can check my Q&A and get more details on background but i dont believe her what you think
2006-07-08 11:06:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is probally attracted to you and since she knows you are not interested, after all the most you did in all the yrs you have known her is asked her to lunch, she is most likely uncomfortable around you. Or maybe she thinks you are interested in her and since she doesn't feel the same way she don't want to send you any mixed signals.
2006-07-08 11:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Tzipor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let's see, I can answer this from two perspectives. First, as a woman, if she's not responding to this, she doesn't want to go to lunch, and wants to keep the relationship where it is.
Second, I used to work in a beauty shop, and it's very common to get close to clients, but as far as dating, it hardly ever happens, because everyone has a full life outside of the shop. Hope this helps some.........
2006-07-08 18:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by trainer53 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that she accepted your invitation to be polite, when you asked her if it offended her and she said no and changed the subject, that tells me that she even feels uncomfortable talking about it. Maybe she is scared you want more than she does. If she wanted you to know she was cool with it, she would have made a better attempt to tell you instead of changing the subject.
Good luck!!
2006-07-08 18:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by Angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You handled it VERY well. YOU did nothing wrong, and handled the situation maturely. I am sure that you would be a wonderful person to have lunch with. SHE has the problem. If she isn't even mature enough to tell you a reason she can't, or won't, or just doesn't want to, go to lunch with you, then she is NOT mature enough for you. Forget about her, and get your hair cut somewhere else.
2006-07-08 18:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she was uncomfortable with that she might not show it but thats the way it seems....you should ask her again...not when she cutting your hair-other people are around (if its public) and she might not want her co-workers or other clients to know this stuff...i suggest you call her at home....or cell phone...a private line that she would answer....or talk to her when other people are not around
2006-07-08 18:12:06 · answer #5 · answered by rosy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess she's just not into you, plus it's bad etiquette to have a relationship with a client, you should have found a new hair dresser before you asked her out
2006-07-08 18:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sappho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i bet id made her uncomfortable. y did she need a pick me up? if it was cuz a guy she might have thought that u were taking advantage of her
2006-07-08 18:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋