Should I wait for the second time
2006-07-08 10:53:33 · 20 answers · asked by T REX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on the girl.
Since we're not all generically the same.
If the date went well, go for it.
If not, then smile and aim for another time.
2006-07-08 10:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by sduuppeer_heidi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong or right with it, the only thing that matters is how both parties feel about the situation. Some people, including myself wouldn't kiss on the first date but kissing on the first date isn't a bad thing. It's just personal perference and how comfortable people are with each other.
2006-07-08 11:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's entirely up to you and the girl.
It's good that you're concerned about rushing things. There are a lot of teens who are thinking more along the lines of "should I put out on the first date?" than you can shake a stick at.
A goodnight kiss would be a good place to start ... but don't force that. Don't make it a big, nasty sloppy kiss with your tongue halfway down her throat ... just a nice, gentle kiss.
When you lean forward to kiss her ... she may lean toward you. In that case ... give her the kiss. If she doesn't ... kiss her on the cheek.
In fact ... you would really impress the heck out of her with a kiss on the cheek at the end of the first date. It would be "sweet" and show her you respected her and liked her ... and weren't in a big rush to get it all!
Kiss her on the cheek, my friend ... I think that's the way!
2006-07-08 11:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by Rob R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no fast and ready rules, do whatever you both agree to,
if she is ready to kiss you, it will come naturally, there is nothing a bigger turnoff than to have someone grab your head, hold it in place and kiss you, I don't recommend that. if you wait until a second time, there may not be a second chance, if she is ready and you prolong the anticipation she may think you aren't up to it and move on. don't try and be a player and have a game, just enjoy the time and do what comes natural.
2006-07-08 11:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if she seems to want to be kissed. If you do decide to kiss a gal on the first date and want to "play it safe," kiss her on her cheek but very close to her mouth. If she's interested, she'll probably turn her lips towards yours. If she's not yet ready, it's not a threatening move, considering that you WERE on a date.
Do it when you are ready, first date or third.
2006-07-08 10:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by Church Music Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how good you are with girls you should try to kiss her on the first date however if u feel she'll decline you wait till next date BUT!!!! if you ddont kiss her on the second or third date then forget about it you'll end up being friends with her its scientifict fact
2006-07-08 10:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for the second date
2006-07-08 10:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends..if you see the girl comfortable around you then go for it..there isn't really a "right time" for a kiss...just when the time is right and make it natural...
2006-07-08 10:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her to kiss you, than you'll know its the right time!!!
2006-07-08 10:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by high five 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be a bad thing to ask her if you can kiss her on a first date then you'd know if she'd be okay with it.
2006-07-08 10:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by chariot804 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋