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its what i believe in i guess and also my religion it just seems that everyone does it before, even in highschool. im afraid i`ll look like a loser being a virgin in college. does anyone else feel the same?

2006-07-08 10:43:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Your virginity is your choice, based upon your religious beliefs and your culture. It's nobody's business but your own.

Stick with what *you* believe. That is important. You have to live with whatever choices you make for the rest of your life.

When the time is right for you to give it away to the right man, you'll know, whether it's before marriage or on your wedding night. The most important thing is that it be YOUR choice, and not something you were pushed into by some guy or by peer pressure.

Be you ... and to your own self be true. Good luck, honey!

2006-07-08 10:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 17 2

No Dear, it isn't stupid at all, and if the Man really loves you, then he will be content to wait with you. Sex isn't everything and it only makes up a small part of your total relationship, Love, Trust, Honesty, Friendship, Kindness, Selflessness, these are more important, and without these, sex is only an action, and basically has no meaning. Don't worry about what others thing, because a lot of them are secretly wishing they had waited too.

2006-07-08 10:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0 0

not everyone is the same with their thoughts and believes,,,you must do what YOU feel is right for YOU,,,do not worry about what everyone else thinks,or what they are doing,,just because you want to wait does not make you a good or bad person,,its choice you wanted to make,,,the real losers are the ones who had sex in grade school and are parents before high school!! Do whats right for you,and don't worry about anyone else but YOU!

2006-07-08 10:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by kkahn9dodge 5 · 0 0

No, its not stupid. However, if you're waiting just for the marriage, then you are doing it for the wrong reasons. Wait until you are READY, whether that happens before or after. Some people prefer to know each other more intimately sooner that others. It's not stupid, just a matter of preference.

2006-07-08 10:46:28 · answer #4 · answered by aeh8482 2 · 0 0

I believe in sex after marriage and I think that it is very smart of you to do it. It keeps you from emotional breakdowning feeling like it goes against religion . No one has to know if you're a virgin or not it's none of their business and it shouldn't be discussed.

2006-07-08 10:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by Peache264 2 · 0 0

It's the right thing to do. I waited until I was married at 26 and I lost a few boyfriends along the way and got teased - but when my husband told me how glad he was that I waited - that made it all worth it - plus I knew I had followed God's plan.... and God's right - it does make for a better marriage!

2006-07-08 10:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No. It is not stupid if that is what you believe. Not everyone does it despite what "everyone" says. Don't consider yourself to be a loser. You're a "winner" because you stick to your principles. You shouldn't have sex because of what other people think. All that matters is what you think.

2006-07-08 10:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by Dave 1 · 0 0

I was Virgin whe i got marry,and believe me,is the best thing to do,nobody needs to know that you're a virgin,are you going to tell everybody at college???so if they ask just change the conversation

2006-07-08 10:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by Naomi w 2 · 0 0

No its not really stupid if you wait to have sex after marriage i am because i want it to be with someone i love and i know they love me back. I would wait you just don't give it up on a one night stand.

2006-07-08 10:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by randomalex 2 · 0 0

Not at all. I think you show great class and morals by waiting, many men seek and respect your desire to wait until marriage to have sex. I would wait for a lady. Stick with it. Don't listen to the jelious sluts that say otherwise.

2006-07-08 10:46:29 · answer #10 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0 0

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