I like sex, I like having one partner, but what do I do when he won't do me? I'm sure it's about control. How can I save our relationship?
2006-07-08 10:38:30 · 13 answers · asked by Patty B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you want a lifetime of that crap? it's always about control whether it is the guy or the gurl. no good ending can become of it. if you guys are already playing games with sex, it isn't going to get better. find someone who has as much libido as you do. that's a battle you can't win if someone has a lower libido than you do and it's easy for them to say no.
2006-07-08 10:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find 1 partner that likes have sex too.
You should not want to continue a relationship where your guy is using sex to gain control. I think your relationship has bigger issues than sex. Figure out what they are and attempt to fix them or find someone who is willing to treat you as an equal.
2006-07-08 17:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by girlysledgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone you are compatible with. a person that believes in communication, so the 2 of you can speak out your differences. get to know each other. all this has to take place before you get physical, that means before having sex. if the first 2 aren't in the relationship, then no sex. leave to find a better partner.your boyfriend feels inferior to you. find someone that has grown-up.don't date (or) see this "child" anymore.
2006-07-08 17:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by chapes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't save your relationship. If one person is using sex as a weapon agaisnt the other, then you're doomed. I'd move on to someone who appreciates being physical with you.
P.S. I think he doens't want to have sex because he's with someone else behind your back.
2006-07-08 17:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy isn't interested in sex with you, he is getting it somewhere else. That doesn't mean he is cheating on you, he might be doing it himself. Maybe you should change it up a bit. Does he want stuff in bed that you don't do? If that doesn't work, he likes the dick.
2006-07-08 17:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by natex14 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make him work. What is he a crippled? Apart from that, talk to him about how you feel. If he isn't willing to be more "loving" then I think you should give your "gold" to someone else.
2006-07-08 17:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's gay or not attracted to you any more. To attract him after a day's work get buck naked and gain the power in the relationship.
2006-07-08 17:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Peache264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a man who will give it up!
2006-07-08 17:40:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you have been pleasuring yourself with a vibrator. We'll see how much he likes that. trust me, if you tell him that his pride will be hurt, so hell try to please you more often.
2006-07-08 17:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by PCC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it.....i mean is he still a virgin....cause if so he might be afraid of doing something wrong if your not......
2006-07-08 17:42:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋