My gf found me and her freind in bed innocently watching a film about a boxer with sly stelone in it anyhoo she threw a tyson and accused me of being unfaithfull, she then stole my stash and said she would report me to probation, I love her but I think its time to get a new bird, what do you think (NO AMERICANS PLEASE)
2006-07-08 10:32:11 · 12 answers · asked by maddogs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why no Americans?? I am sure they will also think that your GF had every right to be jealous - wouldn't you be if you found her in bed with your friend 'innocently' watching a film......
2006-07-08 10:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by Lupee 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well the thing is all she can see is you in bed with another woman, it isn't even the fact that you may or may not had sex, it is the fact that you are being emotionally and physically close with someone who isn't her.
But hey if your thinking that it is time to move on then that is something you have to think about, but DON'T go with her friend, she will only think she was right.
That and knowing what women are like she will be telling th world what a no good scum bag cheater you are if you did go with her Friend.
2006-07-08 14:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by JennyPenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok maybe its just me, but that wouldnt freak me out unless you'd given me reason to be suspicious. i have a lot of male friends, and quite often do things like that, in most of my realtionships there have always been close friends around of the opposite sex, and as long as your secure in the relationship, and you dont display behaviour that would give her reason to be weary or not trust you, i cant see the problem.
Not all women get jelous, its a personal thing!!
When you say innocently, i take it you mean on top of the covers, fully clothed, and not in any kind of a compromising position!
If you love the girl, you need to explain to her that you love her and that there was nothing in it, tell her you didnt realise that it would hurt her and that your sorry, and it wont happen again - but mean it, dont just say it!!
2006-07-08 21:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by redblueswirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you loved her, you would get jealous if she was in bed with another guy, and to be honest why should she believe that it was innocent, she's not stupid she clearly knows that guys cheat.
Im not american btw. Anyway MEN get jealous too, they just dont show it as much.
2006-07-08 11:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
use the 3 words only when u mean it. she should learn how to trust but its kinda fishy when ur in bed w/ her fwiend alone. anyways, if she didnt really care bout dis relationship, then she wouldnt be jealous. just have a talk w/ her bout her tantrum/jealousy
2006-07-08 10:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by azngirlzda1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not the wisest thing to do really was it?
Who's the new bird going to be, her friend?
Apologise and grow up.
2006-07-08 10:36:21 · answer #6 · answered by 'Dr Greene' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude but you set yourself up for her to get mad. No girl would be stupid enough to believe you were "just watching tv"
2006-07-08 10:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a cheater! u lov her but its time 4 a new bird! wow, if u lov her y u cheatin!she is jealous and hurt. But she isn't showin it because she loves you.
2006-07-08 10:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by ummestarz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you love her, why were you in bed with another woman
i know you wasnt doing anything but how do you think that looked to your gf?
2006-07-08 11:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by LoVE LiFE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...were you under the covers more info needed for this one but still that was'nt the wise choice
2006-07-08 10:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by Pamela Michele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋