he wants me to be a total slut and do anything he tells me from anal to group sex
2006-07-08 10:20:59 · 21 answers · asked by bi_kinky_mommy 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
break up with him. love is not about sex. to him, you are sex, not love............
2006-07-08 10:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Cutie Emily♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
show me a man who doesnt want a sex toy in his bed.... Ask yourself why you dont want to do those things?.... can or do you want to compromise somehow and ..... maybe just play act for him , so he can close his eyes and think its actually happening.....Oh and your prob not the one hes got on his mind while hes in acttion... hope that dont bother you....
Share the anal sex agree to try it.. Him first ,, :reassure him that the zucchini inserted into his anus will feel soooo unreal.......
by the time hes finished screaming and gettin over the trauma of that he wont be in good condition to do it for you....
Ask yourself now... Why does he want this?
and why would you be a **** for doing ( and possibly even liking) group sex.... ide call that type of person.... um... sexually comfortable with themselves and their relationship
how will it make you feel knowing he wants more that you can give. each time u have sex....
coz you will always feel like your not enough .. more and more jealous of him and others he may meet and who do enjoy it no probs....
if he can understand your not liking that and you can understand his need for it ..... your half way there.... At the end of the day if your a strong couple it may make u stronger
Who knows group sex might make him utterly jealous seeing you with others........
At end of day its your call...
2006-07-08 10:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by xxoochezooxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like he's a control freak and gets off by making you do things that you clearly are not comfortable with.
He wants you to have group sex for HIS ego. He wants to use you because he is inadequate and most likely impotent doing things NORMALLY.
Tell him ONCE, and then dump him if he doesn't grow up. He's childish, and you're too good for him.
2006-07-08 10:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by fiddlesticks9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants you for one thing and one thing only and it is not based on true love. If I were you I would leave him. It doesn't sound like he respects you very much. If you respect yourself you will look for a guy that loves and respects you for more than just sex. It sounds like this guy has some serious issues anyway. GROUP SEX??? SICK!!
2006-07-08 10:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can buy a toy.u don't have to be his toy.i think that he has no feelings for u .this is kind of humility.refuse it.u'll find someone who respects u & respect ur needs.kick his ****** face up & the best is yet to come 4 u.it needs no thinking it's clear 4 u.he might be psycho.
2006-07-08 10:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ready for something more in a relationship then leave him and find it. He doesn't seem to be with you for the "emotional" side of a relationship. However, If you are in it for the sexual arousal, then soak it up while you can.
2006-07-08 10:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by buK00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not do that for my bf. Thats not a cool thing to do. He makes it seem like your a butty call. And youa need to show him that your not.
2006-07-08 10:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by littlesiscrys15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would never be my boyfriends sex toy. When it comes to sex, never do anything you don't want to.
2006-07-08 10:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by elizabethxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the nickname you got its hard to tell if you are just playing with people here to see what kind of a reaction you will get.
2006-07-08 10:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by Fergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him force you to do anything you're uncomfortable with. If he tries, give him a second chance but explain to him that you're not going to put up with it. If he tries again, break up with him.
2006-07-08 10:24:03 · answer #10 · answered by Cyn90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's fine... but what do YOU want?
If your into anal and group.. Go for it...
If not... tell him it's not you CUP of TEA.
2006-07-08 10:23:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋