My boyfriend claims my vagina is too tight, but I thought men liked it tight!!?

Question

I'm 21 and I recently just gave me virginity up to my boyfriend . We have been going out for about 8 months. It took him about 10 mins to get it in. He claimed I was too tight, but I just think that he couldnt get it in because he didnt know wat he was doing. If so, how could I get it too loosen up so it won't be so difficult the next time. Has this ever happened to you before??

Answer 1

It is never to tight ,use some oils or gels,and if he does not know what he is doing get a book on sex.TOO TIGHT ... BULL

Answer 2

you could go out whorin around till your labia just dangles about like some half dead sea creature out of its shell. then whe he has to spin his thing around just to hit the sides, ask him " how ya like me now?" But seriously, it might not be a "tight" issue at all. it could very well be a "lubrication" thing. being new to sex, your probably a little tense, therefore dont get wet (not your or his fault). but if your dry, it wouldnt matter if your equipment was as big around as a beer can and his eqipment was the size of a cigarette, it would still be difficult... it gets better, i promise.

Answer 3

you need to be more stimulated before you start, have him play with you, or if he doesnt do it, say you need to use the bathroom...dont climax, just relax yourself a bit, loosen up sorta speak...

Answer 4

Give it time and if you marry him ....ten years from now he is going to complain about being to lose...just tell him to grow up...you are fine...yes we men we love that!!!!!!!!!!!! your boyfriend just doesn't know what the hell he is doing!!!take care...

Answer 5

Just relax and have fun. Obviously if it's hurts then he's not doing his job right.