2006-07-08 09:48:15 · 16 answers · asked by Mitch R 1 in Consumer Electronics ➔ Other - Electronics
Never.. You guys are still young for that and she should not be in such a hurry...
leave something for future..
2006-07-08 10:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by Cutebessi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN ... just stop seeing her. Girls are often way more into this than guys at a way earlier date sometimes... and not being emotionally developed yet enough to handle this kind of intimacy leads to a lot of teen suicides , drugs to kill the pain of lonliness you feel when something goes wrong...just a bad trip in general ... immerse youself in music , sports ,school whatever you love other than your friend , if she wants sex now she's probably not going to change her mind even if you don't think it is a good idea it really does change a lot of things about who you are which you might want to hold onto for a few more years. I know a friend of my son who was concieved by an older girl with his dad when his dad was just 15... that poor kid lives with his grandma and is very messed up in his head. At 28 he lives with his girlfriend and is still not able to support his 13 yr old son.... If he had it all to do over again he would wait to have his son for when he can be a good dad. That girl was on birth control. If you aren't ready to become a father don't start having sex. I got pregnant with my partner using a condom and myself using a diaphragm with spermicide... Don't believe these are rare occurance my girlfriend got pregnant after her tubes were tied ,they grew back...for real. If you draw back from your friendship like my brother did in jr. high then you'll be so relieved it wasn't you who got her pregnant like the girl who had a crush on my brother... She was pregnant at 14. I guess she got a crush on someone else.
2006-07-08 17:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might sound cheesy but she definitely shouldn't to do it. She could end up pregnant even if she does use protection(condoms don't always work) or it can scar her for life. Her body is still not ready for all those changes. My step-sister who's 16, got pregnant from also wanting to have sex and she's having her baby b/c she doesn't want to abort. It's not an easy thing and there so many dangerous things that can happen.If she doesn't listen to you, you should get help from a school counselour or even tell her parents. If you really care about her and she's a true friend, she'll definitely thank you later.
2006-07-08 16:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by hello 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no! The problem with most kids today is they don't think of the consequences of their actions. Many adults also think the same way. Sex is something to be held in trust for that one person who will love you forever, your wife.
I promise you that if you wait for your future wife, to express this intimate act only with her, you will never regret it, and it will make your times together all that more special.
You have a choice, go the way of the world which says, "Do her!" (and you see how the world is messed up) or you can take a higher road, respect this girl enough not to "do her" and save that portion of yourself for your future wife!
2006-07-08 17:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ultimately up to you. no one can tell you if you are ready. It will be more emotional and potentially harmful for her. Harmful not only physical (STD/preg/1st time hurts (so i am told)) but emotionally. I know many girls whom wish they did not do it so young or with the person they did it with. Some it has effected them their whole life. You only get one first time - in the backseat or rushing because your parents went to the store is not the way i would recommend to 'do it' It is a special act between people who love each other.
no one hear can tell you if you are in love. But put it this way, do you want to do it, if so are are willing to maybe be referred to as "the one i wish i did not do - i should have saved it". if you answer yes to both then you are not looking here for advice but confirmation that what your doing is right. Only you know what is right - to you, and what you can live with.
If so use a condom.
The choice is up to you, but the results are also yours to bear.
Good luck
2006-07-09 03:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by smartypantsmbcanada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're interested as well, you could try heavy petting first. Or dry humping. I would avoid penetration at your age. You shouldn't engage in intercourse until you have a stable relationship and you can support a child.You might want to get some condoms and lubricant even if you are only petting. It is possible that semen could find it's way onto a finger and then into a vagina, possibly spreading STD's or resulting in a pregnancy.
If you're not interested, tell her you're not ready.
2006-07-08 17:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by klunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she already done it before? Maybe she has something and doesn't know it yet. Maybe she wants to try and get pregnant to trap you. Either way you can go to jail cuz she's still underage, yea even though you are too, I've seen it happen. Tell her you'll have to break up if she continues to hound you.
2006-07-08 17:20:58 · answer #7 · answered by moonlitcherri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no.
Trust me,
Teenage sex is the #1 cause of STDs and teenage Pregnancy!
(bum-bum-bum!)
Just say no.
(But if you must, wear a condom.)
(And dont for get to tell the girl what i just told you) Good Luck.
2006-07-08 17:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her? Does she love you? IF YES. Then I say you should do it.If no I would wait.... If you have sex use protection.VERY IMPORTANT!!! You dont want to get an std or have a baby at your age!! :-) Hope this helps..
2006-07-08 16:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by Sandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a male or a female? Well, regardless, it's up to you if you want to.
2006-07-08 16:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋