What is it that women really want? I'm not unattractive, I have a job, a car, and nice apartment but no woman.

Question

I see good women hook-up with total losers all the time. I'm not a loser, but still women overlook me, and I'm not at all shy. What should I do?

Answer 1

not to sound like a total gay, but maybe you are looking too hard. my fiance' and i walked into eachother in a hallway in college, as i was checking out another girl as she walked by. sometimes it is your heart that needs to do the thinking. having a job and a car and being good looking is cool and all but i bet that quite girl in the corner of the book store is waiting for an action hero to wisk her away instead of the mild mannered reporters she is constantly meeting. girls feel the same way. i'm hot, fun to be with, why do i end up with total butt heads all the time. so you see grasshopper, it may not be what you have or what you do but what you really feel inside that will help you find "ther right one"

Answer 2

You said NOTHING about your personality, but I can get a sense from you stating possessions that you are really a pretty cocky guy. Girls don't like cocky. Confident= good, cocky= bad. You also could be accidentally sending the wrong signals, I mean come on...you are probably sending "taken" signals or "not looking" signals or "not ready for a real relationship" signals or "commitment issue" signals or, in a worst case scenario, "I want a one-night-stand" signals. All of these are bad and with how many bad signals you could be sending that is probably the case. Also, you could be trying for the wrong type of women. I saw on Dr. Phil that people are attracted to people with similar backgrounds. If someone has commitment issues then they are usually drawn to others with commitment issues, if someone is unconfident they are usually drawn to unconfident people, ect... Hope this helped!

Answer 3

Hmmmm, first off, IF all the loser are getting girlfriends, then maybe you don't know what a loser is...and maybe you are one. The fact you think that a car, job, and apartment is good enough, well, it isn't for a good woman, only those tht are shallow enough to think those are importnat....there is heart, mind, and soul. If you aren't getting a woman, and losers are? well, think about it

Answer 4

The women u see are use to losers look for a nice women in the church u attend or in a social gathering and just be yourself .

Answer 5

You don't say HOW you are meeting people OR your age. Both important information. First, you can't just go hunting for a woman. You will need to "click" with one first - become friends - have some common intersts (but not totally alike). There is someone for you I am sure. Be patient. Love comes when you least expect it.

Answer 6

Maybe you are too nice. Women like excitement, thrill, bad boys. It's stupid, I know - bad boys get us hurt. But we're looking for that good man with a big heart who can walk, talk and make love like a bad-a$$. We want respect, love, stability, fun, and excitement all rolled up into a package.
Jack Nicholson is not a goodlooking man. Neither is Clint Eastwood. But they are bth gruff and sexy... bad boys at heart. We want a man with a gentle hand, but who can get nasty in bed, and still respect us in the morning.

Answer 7

I would rather have the love of a good man, one who respects and cherishes me, than a man who thinks he is due a good woman because he has a car, job and apartment.

Answer 8

Well r u being a gentle man? if not that can be it. Or one of the big ones is that u might not be showing interest, u have to go up to her and start, not most women will.
Be interested, exciting, honest, and nice.

Answer 9

Most women are looking for a family man.

Answer 10

Get a hooker, get some confidence. Chicks don't want a guy that is ready for a relationship, they want a guy that they think they can change into a relationship type guy. Nice dudes always finish last.