why people get angry, and make the other's life horroble?

Answer 1

Because they don't know how to effectively deal with their anger. It's easy to blame and take it out on someone.

Answer 2

On the whole these people have been hurt VERY badly in the past, or are still being hurt now. By abuse, neglect and other qutie major things. These feelings make them feel alone and lost and, like everyone, they don't want to be alone. So they turn their hurt on others so that they will along with them.

Answer 3

hard to say without more info, what is the situation? who is doing this? best guess they are probably just ugly people inside themselves and therefore want everyone else to be miserable too. however, you do have a choice about whether or not you let someone make your life horrible, you teach people how to treat you. people can't do that to you unless you allow them to. why are you still associating with someone who makes your life horrible? stay away from them, its not that hard to do. plus just because they want to throw it around doesn't mean you have to catch it. consider the source, the things people say are generally about their issues and really have nothing to do with you at all. it takes two to make someones life horrible, the one that takes the horrible action and the one who accepts it and feels horrible. since you can't change anyone else the only choice you have is to change the fact that you accept it.

Answer 4

Because most angry people like to take their anger and flustrations out on other people. Thinking it will release the anger, but it only hurts the other person.

Answer 5

Some people always get angry, in some cases it makes them feel big to make other people feel small. They are usually very unhappy people with nothing in their lives. I hope no-one is making your life horrible, if they are, speak to somebody about it, don't suffer in silence.

Answer 6

people are ignorent and hate-full . my ex in laws are the craziest people you have ever met.....the kids grandmother got all pissed off with me because, i lost my job and she couldent get paid anymore for babysitting. she was calling me a whole bunch of names including.. child molester, because my boyfriend is only 19.,,, well i quit talking to her at that point and i refused to let my children go over anymore. she was calling me thease names infront of them.... and i dont appreciate that. unexceptable behavior! so abouit a month later the sherriffs were at my kids school when i picked them up... the grandmother called them and said my boyfriend and i beat the kids, and she was concerned! i swear! she has known me for 18 years now and knows damn well, that is not true! the sherriffs let me have my kids because he saw no problem. a week later my older son calls me in the afternoon from school... he says- mom..... scocial services are here trying to talk to me..... i told him to do what he has to do( talk to them) then they pull my 6 year old out of class and question him! how frickin embarassing for them and me down at the school! first the sherrifs and now c.p.s!!!!!! for no reason but hatefull ness........then cps has to come to the house.... well needless to say... there is and was no problem... the problem is the grandmothers mad about money....cps said that i supposedly smoke crack and ignore my children all the time! i couldent believe the fake allegations! cps knew also that it was all a lie, thank goodness! unbelievable dont you agree... why would she put my kids who she is supposed to love threw all this crap? people suck and i dont know why people do that.

Answer 7

People get angry by nature and by change of circumstances.If they are bad-tempered it's only because of a lot of negativity in their lives.They DEVELOP AN ABSURD,ABNORMAL,WHIMSICAL,KIDDISH and STUBBORN MENTALITY.That's because of many factors.Some terrible suffering they faced in their childhood-like abuse or exploitation in whatever form.WHEN THEY LOSE SOMETHING REALLY IMPORTANT IN THEIR LIVES,they start thinking evil and instantly get envious of those whom they consider to be enjoying life as they develop a mind-set and believe that the only reason for their sorrow is the very existence of man.They r against humanism.They r against those who r democratic and believe in ruling over others.They suffer from intense depression ,anxiety and need to be given proper counselling and if necessary medication by a psychiatrist.THERE MAY BE NEUROTRANSMITTER IMBALANCE,BRAIN INJURY IN INFANCY,TOUGH ENVIRONMENT OR SITUATIONS,FAILURE IN ACHEIVING THEIR GOALS,DEATH OF A CLOSE ONE OR THEIR PET ETC.PEOPLE R DIFFERENT.THE BEST WAY IS TO ACT CALM,SMART AND CHOOSE THE MIDDLE PATH.BE DIPLOMATIC AND MANIPULATE SITUATIONS IN A WAY THAT IT LEAVES NO SCOPE OF ENIMITY.TRY TO IMPRESS THEM,DO SOMETHING REEEAAALLLYY! funny to cheer them.Help them realize the path of GOD,THE SUPREME ALMIGHTY and make sure that they go to CHURCHES at least once in a week.ANGER CAN ALSO HAVE A RELIGIOUS CONNOTATION associated with it.It is not present when we r born.IT'S SATANIC INFLUENCE WHICH NEEDS TO BE CURED THROUGH HEALING,PRAYERS,MEDITATION,BAPTISM.IF U R A POLYTHEIST GO FOR BUDDHISM,HINDUISM,or any other religion and see make a visit to their places of workship.These people r vulnerable and need to be comforted.THE BEST WAY TO PENETRATE DEEP INTO THEIR MIND through HYPNOSIS AND HELP THEM REMOVE THEIR FREAS OR DEPRESSIONS,PAIN THAT HAS GOT ACCUMULATED IN THEIR SUB-CONSCIOUS OR UNCONSCIOUS MINDSET.

Answer 8

Unfortunately in every society you will find people who have all sorts of behaviors. It is a mystery why people have to let their anger on other people but have you ever tried ignoring them? Look past their anger and you will see vulnerability........

all people are different.

Answer 9

It's all about Pain. If someone hurts you, you want them to hurt just as bad. It's quite immature, but it seams to happen easily and often.

Answer 10

the person that is angry is probably angry at him/her self for something and takes it out on other people because he/she doesn't know what else to do.