my gf cheated on me, once sexually and others just fooling around. i forgave her with no expectations in return or any expectation to cheat and be expexted to be forgiven in the future. but turns out i did cheat, one time (slept with someone else.)
(we were both under the influence everytime cheated) we are in love each other.
should she forgive me?
2006-07-08 09:28:26 · 8 answers · asked by Steph is tight like a tiger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like you guys are not ready to be in a committed relationship... You can still be love someone and not be ready... give it time and see what else is out there (looks like you already have)
2006-07-08 09:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by Gina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her. This isn't real cheating. Consider how you would have felt if she'd confessed though, instead of you having to find out the way you did. Not confessing could have spared you some pain, but then what else is she lying about? Maybe she would have told you if she'd actually gone through with it? Anyway, she sent the nude photos but I wouldn't count that as cheating. It's less worrisome than skinny dipping, which is always where I set my standards for cheating. You don't know if she would have gone through with it in the end, and now that it's been found out she says that she won't go through with it even if given the chance. Be glad things happened the way that they did and don't be such a prude!
2016-03-26 21:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because you forgave her.
But I would suggest, no longer going ''under the influence'', unless you end the relationship first.
Constant cheating while under the influence and expecting the relationship to still work out, is not going to last very long.
2006-07-08 09:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take some time away from each other. In fact you should probable take some time to figure out who you are and what you want with your life. Do you want a relationship with someone you trust and trusts you? Then you have to know who you are.
2006-07-08 09:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by Joe B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO both of you need to move on once a cheater always cheats
2006-07-08 09:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both stupid, I hope the both of you are using protection. Hopefully one of you will grow up before you wind up a disease.
2006-07-08 09:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by somanyquestions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you both need to find someone else. a relationship should have trust and honesty which it seems yr does not
2006-07-08 09:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea but not likely cause you did that for revenge
2006-07-08 09:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋