i need help with this.....it is putting me thru much pain!!
2006-07-08 09:24:43 · 13 answers · asked by limey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont mis interpret this......one of my friends is dating my ex!! Its really hard for me.....is it wrong for me to kind of hate her??
2006-07-08 09:30:31 · update #1
NO NO NO NO NO!!!! Unless if you want to have an "ex"-best friend.
2006-07-08 09:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**Oops, just read your additional comment and realized we were all heading in the wrong direction with our answers! **
It's absolutely normal for you to feel anger towards your best friend, and probably towards your ex as well. You're probably wondering now if your bestfriend had her eye on your ex while you guys were still going out, coz that's how I'd feel. You should confront your best friend with your feelings though. If she treasures you friendship then surely she would appreciate you being honest with her. I'm not saying you should ask her to break-up with him thought, because to be fair, your relationship with your ex has ended, so he has a right to start a new relationship, but to go out with your best friend is of course a rather insensitive choice. But if you're feeling very hurt coz they're dating, then they should know that.
2006-07-08 09:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by Crayon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the break-up between your friend and her ex is more than 3 months old I would talk to your best friend and explain to her that her ex wants to go out with you. That you would only consider it if she was okay with it as you are sure she must have feelings about it and her feelings are more important to you than going out with her ex. If the breakup was a recent one I would just tell your friends ex that you would like to wait awhile before seeing him as you care about your friend and her feelings are important to you. If he is a decent guy he will understand that the friendship is important to you and will not object to waiting.
2006-07-08 09:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think no one should date their bestfriends ex boyfriend/girlfriend. That is a line that should never be crossed. But still if your friendship you feel is worth saving talk to her and tell her how you feel. Especially if you loved him. If you didn't really care about him then just let them be together.
2006-07-08 09:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by Conceited B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would consider it, well i have before, but likeing ur best friends ex doesn't always turn out good i was lucky to have a best friend that didn't really care
2006-07-08 09:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bypass for her, she feels like she will make you satisfied by employing the way you discuss her and also you're going to make her happier. And a ex-boyfriend can continually favor to come back decrease back, extremely individual who became there for sex, he will come decrease back for added sex. often times they by no potential study and adjust. you would possibly want to attempt in case you want her, you'll make her fairly satisfied.
2016-11-06 01:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no! you crazy? either this person is not your best friend or youre just a heartless *****. and i mean that in a nice way. unless she is 100% OK with it then no, it will cause alot of bitterness between you and youre best friend. Im gonna say no :-)
2006-07-08 09:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by evil2innocence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO! .....and u should know this code by heart since ur a chick....but i see your not the kind of girl other girls should have as friends cuz u dont have any loyalties....
2006-07-08 09:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by socalsonja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little bcause u would probly do the same thing if u liked her ex
2006-07-08 09:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by *BrItNeY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are over!
2006-07-08 09:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by Out and Proud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋