I am in shape,slim and try different hairstyles. I wear a tuxedo shirt and tie at work, and dress in crisp, clean jeans when I am off. I speak very articulate despite a slight new york accent. I am very high energy. I am only a so-so looking guy but not skeevy or low class looking at all. When I approach women, they are barely polite. If I go to a place with lots of single women and just sit by myself, no one gives me a second glance. I have a personals ad on yahoo personals if anyone wants to see my pics. I think my username is:affectionate444. Can anyone make any suggestions on how to appear cool and sexy? Or who could I go to for advice?
2006-07-08 08:53:33 · 12 answers · asked by Daytrading44 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it's not appearance but personality that needs work.
2006-07-08 08:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its your teeth or your breath? Maybe you look too feminine and the ladies think you're Gay? Could be anything.
And why are you wearing a Tuxedo shirt to work? Are you a magician?
Do you saw ladies in half? When you go to the club, do you take the saw with you?
Ok, i'll stop now.
2006-07-08 08:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by a151nsprite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may come off as being a little on the femme side...I don't mean anything personal by this. Girls like the bad boy and rugged look. Being a pretty boy is one thing, but you have to have a wild side on you as well. You also have to show confidence when you approach a girl. A girl likes a guy who can handle his business.
2006-07-08 09:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by scubascott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shawty, normally I dont post these kind of answers but your comment really pushed me over the edge. I would like to clarify that if a woman likes her body, she doesnt go showing it to the world. She is confident enough in it that she doesnt have to prove to the world that she is pretty by stripping. I know several people including myself with beautiful bodies. Curves in all the right places and good features but we dont go walking around naked to show everybody. In my opinion a beautiful woman is someone who is beautiful while still in her clothes. And BTW, an "exotic dancer" is just a fancy, more polite way of saying "I`m a hoe".
2016-03-26 21:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just by the way you described yourself, you probably pass that image on and I kinda think you are vain. A woman (excuse me,a true woman) can tell when a nicely dressed man is a jerk. Sorry dude, you are not even attractive when asking a question
2006-07-08 08:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by tedajo3901 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coolness comes from the inside, dont try so hard, go to places that ppl dont know u, take a few buddies, women want men like u but dont want u to know they do, bc u seem more like the type who wants to get married and all, so be more of a parta guy for awhile..loosen up, have more of an "im hot, n dont give a crap who thinks otha wise" attitude,see if it helps ya out.
2006-07-08 08:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks don't have everything to do with it. Maybe you are going after the snotty girls. Maybe you come across as too cocky. Personality is 99% of the game.
2006-07-08 08:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by Roach25486 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're trying too hard. That's a big turn-off. Go out with less expectations.
2006-07-08 08:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by browneyedgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is a Magnet
2006-07-08 08:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a potato in your underwear. Oh and make sure it's in the front!
2006-07-08 08:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋