what should i do i want to be with him he is with me and not her but i can't get over the fact that he got aother girl pregnant and she keeps on causing us problems and every time i think bout it i get mad at him
2006-07-08 08:26:54 · 18 answers · asked by charod06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well he cheated on you....And now you guys are gonna have kids the same age and he has two responsibilities now. If you stay with him, this is something you have to deal with and he cheated on you at least one time that you know about (which I'm sure is more than once) and you will always wonder if he will do it again. You will want to believe that he won't cheat on you again, but you never know. My advice is to leave him alone and remain cordial for your child, because he could have brought you and your unborn child a disease. He is obviously selfish.
But I know how women are and you will probably take him back because you will choose to be stupid until you are finally fed up.
2006-07-08 08:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a teenager, you kind of sound like it..if not I apologize. I know you may want to be with him, but you have a baby to think about and if he already cheated once he'll do it again, and now he has 2 children to care for and maybe that is why the other girl is possibly causing problems, she probably wants to know if he is going to help raise her child ie child support etc. I think you should go and talk to a counselor about this.
2006-07-08 15:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by jenna4freedom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look her gf if yo man got u n anotha girl pg at the same time what makes u think he is gonna stick around wit chu n not cheat again and again wit the otha chic as well as wit some mo..see where i am goin wit this? see as of now he knows that he can cheat on u bc u wont leave him, i guess u care more bout him than u do bout urself but hey i guess a cheatin man with all sorts of kids who prolly wont help raise then is a really good catch. just wait til he denys both ur kids when he hooks up with anotha chic n knocks her up..oh boy can i get this guys number he sounds like a keeper! when did u girls lose ur self respect n self worth? girl plz, put that ***** out on his a.s.s..too many young mommas with drama these days ..but i love him , he my baby daddy..no hun he was just the sperm donor n that was all he wanted to do bc he WILL NOT stay with u and he WILL NOT stay faithful to u. NEVA GONNA HAPPEN GROW UP N GET RID OF HIM NOW.
2006-07-08 15:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you love him but here it is. He was cheating on you and that is extremely obvious now. And the other girl he got pregnant has every right to cause you problems. Your boyfriend is its father and he has to take care of her as well as you. Because she is bringing his baby into the world she will always be in the picture even if he chooses to be with you. My question to you is why do you want to be with someone who would get you pregnant and someone else. He obviously does not know what it is to take responsibility. If it was me I would not want to be with someone who would do that to me. I would raise the baby without him.
2006-07-08 15:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are starting off life on the wrong foot. PLEASE do not continue with this young man. He may be your baby's father, but he is NOT worth ruining your life. You'll be constantly mad at him.
That means you'll be constantly unhappy. Because he will be a constant reminder, of why you're in the position that you're in.
2006-07-08 15:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and send him packing. You should concentrate on yourself and your baby instead of settling for the cheater and enduring problems from the other girl he got pregnant.
2006-07-08 15:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was cheating, then he still is cheating. Get rid of him and collect child support. It's hard words to hear girl, but it's best for your child.
2006-07-08 15:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by Mischelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the other girl will always use the baby as an excuse to call or see your boyfriend.And he will probably still keep sleeping with her so go with your heart can your heart deal with the situation.
2006-07-08 15:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Another one Bites the Dust" He isn't worth it, and your child would be better off not being around him. Get rid of the guy you and your baby are better off without him.
2006-07-08 15:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what happens when ya have sex before marriage now you will probably be raisin your child without a dad i feel sorry for that child what a shame
2006-07-08 15:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by wnruger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋